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There are such things as specifications for a given cartridge. If you have a load in a 357 Magnum case that will not chamber in a given 357 magnum, it's not a SAAMI spec cartridge. Ehile the 357 SuperMag is a wildcat, it does have specs and those sepcs make it too long to chamber in a Ruger.
By your criteria a 38 Special, a 357 Magnum, a 360 Dan Weson, a 357 Maximum, and a 357 SuperMag are all the same cartridge.
As for the case length, a 357 SuperMag case may or may not chamber in a 357 Maximum chamber depending on how the tolerances fall. The case isn't much longer, but it is longer.
The Ruger was specifically designed to NOT chamber the 357 SuperMag, against Elgin Gates advice. Since Elgin developed the 357 SuperMag and was consulted by Ruger on the following Maximum project I should think his opinion that they are two seperate cartridges should be the gospel.
They have two different case lengths, two differnt OALs, two different case capacities, two different working pressures, and two different sets of loading data, and two different design purposes. Sounds like two different cartridges to me.
I think you are arguing purely for the sake of arguing. Go call your 357 Maximum a SuerMag and be happy. The diffrence really only counts in revolvers anyway, not single shots.