Pax Jordana
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Well, I've seen here that we've all been getting our daily doses of dr. phil.. so I've another one to throw out there.
My best friend just moved into a house. He's getting married in may, and I like her a lot. I taught him to shoot, and I feel safe around him and guns. He doesn't own any, however, nor does he have his permit. I'm glad to leave that part up to him and the missus. Thing is, he's been making noises about a loaner gun for home defense.
As the custom is among my people, if the door (to the house, apt, whatever) is unlocked, you open it and holler inside to identify yourself. If it's locked, you knock. These past few visits, he has either come to the door armed or made some casual off-color comment ("Dude, you almost got tomahawked.."). I try to shrug it off, as it's probably a little disconcerting to be working alone in the house all day and have your silent reverie blown away by a knock or a holler, but I'm wondering how safe it would be to lend him something.
To top that off, though this is just bad form, he has no set itinerary for either buying his own darn gun or for getting the wifey trained in safety and use.
And then as a final consideration, there are contractors in and out all day, but his big-screen TV's sitting there in the living room and that'd be the first to go.. by contrast there's little furniture in there yet, and it really wouldn't take long to toss the whole place.
So it's not that I'm being a lousy friend, right?
My best friend just moved into a house. He's getting married in may, and I like her a lot. I taught him to shoot, and I feel safe around him and guns. He doesn't own any, however, nor does he have his permit. I'm glad to leave that part up to him and the missus. Thing is, he's been making noises about a loaner gun for home defense.
As the custom is among my people, if the door (to the house, apt, whatever) is unlocked, you open it and holler inside to identify yourself. If it's locked, you knock. These past few visits, he has either come to the door armed or made some casual off-color comment ("Dude, you almost got tomahawked.."). I try to shrug it off, as it's probably a little disconcerting to be working alone in the house all day and have your silent reverie blown away by a knock or a holler, but I'm wondering how safe it would be to lend him something.
To top that off, though this is just bad form, he has no set itinerary for either buying his own darn gun or for getting the wifey trained in safety and use.
And then as a final consideration, there are contractors in and out all day, but his big-screen TV's sitting there in the living room and that'd be the first to go.. by contrast there's little furniture in there yet, and it really wouldn't take long to toss the whole place.
So it's not that I'm being a lousy friend, right?