Can you show where you got that information? The 158gr rounds were never a problem because they were the standard when the K frame was designed.
It doesn't matter that they were standard. The problem would not show up until some thousands of rounds had been shot with any single gun. Like the Pinto gas tanks and the Saddle tanks on Chevy pickup trucks. You need to accumulate enough highway miles and rear-end and T-bone accidents resulting in deadly fires to occur before someone does some head-scratching about it.
Look, I don't want to start an argument here, but when the problem occurred in my gun (the "personal experience" I noted), I did extensive research on it which indicated that the problem has been around for a long time. I am not going to do that research again. (Some of it was done and results found on the now-defunct packing dot org website in which I was a very active participant.)
It may also occur with 125-grainers more than with 158 grainers, but as I pointed out, it was occurring with 158-grainers long before 125s were common. There may also be additional variables such as better steels and better production methods in the later guns, but at least with mine
when it occured, it was with 158s only, and I was a little ticked off that shooters had known of this problem for a while but nothing was done about it.
Despite the fact that Colt revolvers do not have either the notch or the problem with forcing cone splits.
However, the Kent article may well be 100% accurate as far as it goes with more modern guns.
Mine is a 19-4 with screwed-in and pinned barrel and recessed chambers if that helps you date it.
Having not shot the gun for years, about ~fifteen years ago I brought it out of retirement for some field carry and plinking at rocks and pine cones and whatnot, and that's when I first noticed the cylinder binding. (All with 158 grainers, which is all I ever shot out of that gun, since I knew the gun and the trajectory very well.) I let it sit for a while before I investigated further, discovered the problem, and did the research I mentioned. Several posts on the S&W forum were informative about it, but I'm not going to dig them up again.
I agree with you that OP's occasional use (18 rd twice a year) of .357s (especially aluminum Blazers) will not significantly affect the useful life of his gun.
Respectfully submitted,
Terry, 230RN