edji-x
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I have a family of my wife, 1 girl, 2 boys. My daughter is currently 6 and my boys are 2 & 1. Over the last couple months, my daughter has been expressing increased interest in shooting. When she was younger, we attempted to teach her a CO2 bb pistol. My wife and I both have semi auto's, with CCW permits, a 9mm and 45, respectively. So, my daughter is saying she wants to shoot, "a real gun. Not a bb gun." I can follow her logic.
So, my problem lies in my wife wasn't really brought up in a home with guns, and I haven't exactly had the best experience with guns, although, I do love them. I accidentally shot a flint lock muzzle loader in my house at age 4-5, my parents knocked the powder out of the flashpan, and it was legally considered unloaded. Right up to the point of me, having watched how to fire it, was playing with it unattended. I wasn't allowed to touch guns until I was older, then had a 357 magnum and a 30-06 put in my hand, expected to be a marksman at 10-11 years old. It didn't end well. Also, after having 308 and 30-06 ammo on a bench, my father fired a 308 out a 30-06.
So, I really don't want that repeated. I have a couple developing friendships that may help me with this. I don't really know much about firearms, except from what I've deduced from my own experience about safety, knowledge, and common sense. I feel comfortable with my knowledge of firearms, but the prospect of teaching my daughter brings a lot of anxiety.
Since my daughter is interested at what seems like a too young age, I've asked around, and was told by a certified gun instructor that this is a perfect age to start. I don't feel satisfied by one person though. Legally, she's able to shoot at whatever age, and I feel she exhibits the proper mental capacity and maturity to safely operate a gun, given my obvious concern for safety with them, and the extremely close supervision. I've taken her to a large outdoorsman outfitter, and she's really interested in semi auto and revolvers. Rifles don't pique her interest at this point.
So, all of that to express this:
Given what I know, and experienced, I feel I either don't know, or maybe just lack confidence that I possess the necessary knowledge to teach her properly. If this is her hobby, I want her to learn it correctly. I want this to be a good experience, not a bad one, and most of all, safe.
What is making me nervous is I feel that there's probably a lot of safety things that I don't even know about handling guns, especially semi automatic pistols, which she's leaning towards. A professional instructor would be nice, but it's not financially possible, plus she wants daddy to teach her.
I guess what I'm asking is if what I'm going through is normal, any personal tips or tricks, anything constructive criticism/helpful advice about teaching her correctly. Also, I'm very interested in how to approach it, what to teach when, etc. Maybe a decent guide to doing this. Scouring the net, the only real clear thing I've noticed is almost everything I was taught added up for the perfect recipe for disaster.
One last note, I'm thinking about approaching it as, safety always through each step, first and foremost, and going something like, how to operate a firearm, how it works, how to care for it, and then shooting. I apologize if it's in the wrong thread, I figure that this thread may yield more specific responses to handguns, that may be pertinent. Thanks!
So, my problem lies in my wife wasn't really brought up in a home with guns, and I haven't exactly had the best experience with guns, although, I do love them. I accidentally shot a flint lock muzzle loader in my house at age 4-5, my parents knocked the powder out of the flashpan, and it was legally considered unloaded. Right up to the point of me, having watched how to fire it, was playing with it unattended. I wasn't allowed to touch guns until I was older, then had a 357 magnum and a 30-06 put in my hand, expected to be a marksman at 10-11 years old. It didn't end well. Also, after having 308 and 30-06 ammo on a bench, my father fired a 308 out a 30-06.
So, I really don't want that repeated. I have a couple developing friendships that may help me with this. I don't really know much about firearms, except from what I've deduced from my own experience about safety, knowledge, and common sense. I feel comfortable with my knowledge of firearms, but the prospect of teaching my daughter brings a lot of anxiety.
Since my daughter is interested at what seems like a too young age, I've asked around, and was told by a certified gun instructor that this is a perfect age to start. I don't feel satisfied by one person though. Legally, she's able to shoot at whatever age, and I feel she exhibits the proper mental capacity and maturity to safely operate a gun, given my obvious concern for safety with them, and the extremely close supervision. I've taken her to a large outdoorsman outfitter, and she's really interested in semi auto and revolvers. Rifles don't pique her interest at this point.
So, all of that to express this:
Given what I know, and experienced, I feel I either don't know, or maybe just lack confidence that I possess the necessary knowledge to teach her properly. If this is her hobby, I want her to learn it correctly. I want this to be a good experience, not a bad one, and most of all, safe.
What is making me nervous is I feel that there's probably a lot of safety things that I don't even know about handling guns, especially semi automatic pistols, which she's leaning towards. A professional instructor would be nice, but it's not financially possible, plus she wants daddy to teach her.
I guess what I'm asking is if what I'm going through is normal, any personal tips or tricks, anything constructive criticism/helpful advice about teaching her correctly. Also, I'm very interested in how to approach it, what to teach when, etc. Maybe a decent guide to doing this. Scouring the net, the only real clear thing I've noticed is almost everything I was taught added up for the perfect recipe for disaster.
One last note, I'm thinking about approaching it as, safety always through each step, first and foremost, and going something like, how to operate a firearm, how it works, how to care for it, and then shooting. I apologize if it's in the wrong thread, I figure that this thread may yield more specific responses to handguns, that may be pertinent. Thanks!