I'm just curious. My family has a funny little denial of my collecting and shooting. It's pretty much all I have going for a hobby right now, but they certainly didn't get me anything remotely related to it. Anyone else have a similar experience?
My wife asked me what I wanted this year, and I said "Oh, anything for shooting". Her answer? the classic wife put-off "I don't know anything about that stuff!".
Now, don't get me wrong, she's a wonderful lady, but this attitude is a rather lazy one if you ask me. I know absolutely zippo about Imperial Carnival glass (which she collects), but if I'm to be a decent husband I know that I must not only learn, but treat her with a rare piece or something extravagant for her collection. (I'm just claiming my moral superiority here, don't read too much into it).
I instead get lots of pragmatic, perfectly boring gifts (clothes, collogne, etc.). That's ok, I appreciate them, but I always thought to ignore someone's passion, especially someone you live with, is a no-no. I think next year I'm going to get her a new set of dish-rags and a gift-certificate to the grocery!
Oh yeah, that'll go over well!
My wife asked me what I wanted this year, and I said "Oh, anything for shooting". Her answer? the classic wife put-off "I don't know anything about that stuff!".
Now, don't get me wrong, she's a wonderful lady, but this attitude is a rather lazy one if you ask me. I know absolutely zippo about Imperial Carnival glass (which she collects), but if I'm to be a decent husband I know that I must not only learn, but treat her with a rare piece or something extravagant for her collection. (I'm just claiming my moral superiority here, don't read too much into it).
I instead get lots of pragmatic, perfectly boring gifts (clothes, collogne, etc.). That's ok, I appreciate them, but I always thought to ignore someone's passion, especially someone you live with, is a no-no. I think next year I'm going to get her a new set of dish-rags and a gift-certificate to the grocery!
Oh yeah, that'll go over well!