I agree. The PF9 is more muzzle flip than recoil. I certainly feel it in my hand, but never been sore even after 100 rounds or so. I do prefer shooting it with the pinky extension to reduce the flip some.
I am glad I am not alone. Here in the Age of the Common Man, things have gotten watered down a bit, and now most of these people who complain about the brutal recoil of a 357 magnum have never actually even fired a full power 357, but instead some watered down mid power 357 at about 1250 fps.
A year or so ago here, someone commented on how brutal the recoil of the Ruger LCP, a 380 ACP, was. This person should hang his head in shame.
I think this is just another manifestation of the decline of our nation. Metrosexualism is eating us away from the inside out.