The problem is that old ladies gossip. She now has told everyone within 3 miles of where you live that you are a crazed gun nut. I just had a similar situation and had to call the sherriff. I actually responded to someone breaking into a neighboors home. The police told her she should have a gun if she was going to keep telling people how much money she had, and that her husband was never home. The cop picked up on it right away, he said I am here 15 minutes and you have told me a dozen times that you have cash and jewlery, "a lot" in your home,never use the alarm, and are alone most or the time. He went on to explain that she should thatk god for neighboors like me, that she could call in an emergency. She then went on a rampage telling everyone , "even people she didn't know, as they walked by", that I was a gun carrying lunatic. She never even saw my gun.
So be careful because some of these old folks are just nuts, and they love to gossip.
The cops suggested I wear my holster on my property ,but would not go over and tell her to cut it out. Two guys who were with homeland and another agency, "that I shoot with", went down to the sherrif and filed some kind of form with the dept.Soon after that she stopped, although I did speak to an attorney, which was next.
I helped her, and it bit me in the ass.