ranger335v pretty much nailed it in post #21.
I would agree that 99% of what he said is good info, but telling the OP to forget the kits is only good advice for one of the following valid reasons:
1. The OP wants a Lee Classic Press or Turret (great values) or other press with lousy or non-existent kits.
2. The OP has the money to to spend enough for the best of each tool. He may even want to look at a Forster press.
Otherwise one of kits he listed is a great way to enter the hobby for the least amount of money. Going the no-kit route, you may buy some of the same tools and spend more money doing it.
A comments on another point he made: He likes the Lee measure. Nothing against that. But know that it's plastic. I've used one, and I didn't see much if any improvement over the Hornady, RCBS design. Any tool you buy has to be "learned." I don't believe it will last as long as either of the other two. The reason I didn't mention it, is because the O.P. didn't list Lee Kits as a choice, and he specifically stated he was looking for stuff he wouldn't ever have to replace.
Also if the OP chooses to not buy a kit, remember to get a hand primer tool, Ranger 335v forgot to mention that. The RCBS universal, or for the price/value, the Lee tool would be my choice. The RCBS APS universal beats em all, but you then would want to add their strip loader. (That choice I mention for if the OP is serious about getting the safest, fast and best tool.)
BTW the only tool in either kit I have any reservations about is Hornady's digital scale...nobody has really commented on good experience with it, and I quoted a user with less than good results. If you will buy a Hornady kit, you will someday get a beam scale. Sooner is better.
The lee trimmers work, and may be a good way to start if you don't have funds for something better. I have problems with the shell holders holding onto the case well. When tightened enough not to slip, it takes a lot of force on that nurled nut to loosen. Uncomfortable, and annoying to me...but I may be a wimp. What can I say, I much prefer a Forster, RCBS, or whatever, rotary trimmer.
Some people like Wilsons or Possum Hollow tools, because they measure from the shoulder. I don't. I heard all the arguments on the method and I still prefer a case to be measured from the base. I may be older, and set in my ways, but my trimmer works perfectly...and I don't know how to improve perfect...except to make it faster...and I did.