Really every gun and every barrel shoot differently. The only way to truly tell is to shoot a bunch of different loads through your guns. As mentioned in other posts the general rule is that faster twists do better with heavier bullets but you won't know until you try a load with your gun.
This. Every barrel is different. Even two barrels made by the same manufacturer from the same blanks will have some variability between them. Whether that is enough to be noticeable or not is another story, but no two barrels are the EXACT same. The only way to find what YOUR barrel likes is to do testing, and that may mean quite a bit of testing. It isn't just a bullet weight that it may not like, but a whole combination of all parts. For example, I tried the 55gr vmax with wc-844, and it wasn't that great(about 2moa, or roughly the same as my bulk 55gr fmj blasting ammo). I tried it with H335, and got the same results. I tried it with imr 3031, and the groups got down to about 1moa. I finally tried it with imr 8208 xbr, and that was the magic ticket. Even with the "magic powder" for the rifle, you can see the early groups were leaving a lot to be desired(worked my way from left to right on each row, then down to the next row). Yes, it is certainly possible there may be some bullets your barrel just doesn't like. However, you won't really be able to be sure with just one simple combination of components. A prime example is the barrel on my precision AR. With bulk Hornady 55gr fmj, it works great with wc-844, h335, and imr 3031. With Hornady's 55gr soft point, it works best with wc-844 and won't really behave with imr 3031. With the 55gr vmax, the only real stellar performer was 8208 xbr. All three of those are 55 grain bullets, all from the same manufacturer, but they all react differently in the barrel depending on the powder. If I were to just use h335, I would think it has some issues with the other bullets, where the reality is that it was the entire combination rather than the bullet itself.
Next, the idea that a wylde chamber will inherently be inaccurate with lighter bullets is pure speculation(and I don't believe it to have any grounding in reality). I personally have a wylde chamber in my White Oak Precision barrel. It is a 1:7.7 Krieger barrel, and will shoot lights out with 55gr vmax(0.5 moa). It will shoot lights out with 52gr SMK(0.7 moa). It will shoot MOA with 60gr TMK, it will shoot sub-moa with 69gr SMK.
It all comes down to developing the right load for the barrel itself. Using any "it worked for me" loads you find on the internet is never a guarantee of accuracy or precision(which is why I always put a disclaimer with my load data that just because it works for me, it doesn't mean it will for you).
For example, here are some of the groups doing load development for my 55gr vmax round for pest control(coyotes, groundhogs, raccoons, and the occasional squirrels when I don't feel like grabbing the 22lr). Based on these results, I find it hard to say that a wylde chamber won't accurately shoot lighter bullets.