Wish you had posted a picture!
I became somewhat familiar with cannon balls after I bought "one" at a flea market. Turned out, not a cannon ball. Maybe a grinding ball.
I don't remember exact sizes, three inches, four inches is about right for a 12 lb Napoleon. There were 6 pounders. I hope an expert can confirm, but I was told 12 pounds was the weight of the ball and charge. So, a 12 lb Napoleon could fire a 10 lb ball.
What has me worried is your statement about "a flat spot". I recommend going to google pictures and type in "civil war cannonball fuse". I put my link below.
https://www.google.com/search?q=civ...ce=univ&sa=X&ei=qqi1U6gQ15uoBphO&ved=0CCcQsAQ
If your ball has a fuse, you have a real problem. Explosive shells had mushroom headed fuses, and those fuses did not always work. As long as the blackpowder inside the shell stayed dry it will go boom forever! I have a newspaper cutting from the 70's where a relic shop owner tried to drill out a CW cannon ball and set the main charge off.
He is no longer with us
Look at the pictures and puzzle out whether you have a solid shot or an explosive shot.
As an aside, I took my grinding ball around to trying to determine if it was a real cannon ball. Talking to an EOD expert, he had been to a little old lady's house to look at her cannon balls. These were nicely stored on either side of the fireplace, they were fused, and the explosive charges were intact! If anyone had rolled them into the fire, for a grin, or maybe an ember had worked its way down the fuse channel, there would have been a big bang at Granny's house!
I have been told that the two "cannon balls" I bought were in fact, industrial grinding balls. Cannon balls are very round, mine are not perfect. You may have something used in pulverizing stuff in a rotary mill.