I didn't read all of these posts because I have A.D.D., but I would like to add some thoughts.
The day I decided to carry a concealed weapon, I became the biggest p*ssy in the world. I will back down from anyone anytme. I will scream HELP! in the face of danger and hope like hell that all those around me remember me doing so when the time comes. I absolutely will not draw my weapon unless I fear for my life or the life of someone I care about. The judicial system is stacked against people using deadly force in a self defense situation and that will not change anytime soon (at least where I live).
Only a select number of people (who know me personally) know that I carry concealed. Hopefully, the same can be said 20 or even 30 years from now.
An ego is the first thing a person should loose when they decide to carry a lethal weapon for protection. That is, unless they like prison.
I think your brother (I think it was your brother?) made the correct decision and is alive and well, and more importantly, not in prison because of his ability to think on his feet.
Please read this thread on glocktalk about someone who has actually used his weapon in self defense.
http://www.glocktalk.com/showthread.php?threadid=126319&highlight=involved+shooting
Here is an excerpt;
"So the couple continue walking toward the parking garage, when the GTer notices the gurgling sound of that van slowly passing by them. Then the GTer, who regularly uses windows to watch his 6, notices the two thugs that crossed the street coming up behind them. One of the thugs is clearly holding his right hand suspiciously around his belt buckle area. Then said GTer notices the van stopped on the side of the street just ahead and the 2 thugs behind them are getting closer."
"GT'er" is slang for a member of the glocktalk forum.