Got a Bulldog, Would Rather Have Ruger
Having owned the Bulldog for a few decades, I'd go Ruger. I've owned many Rugers and like them a whole lot more than the Charter Arms.
Recoil on the Bulldog is stout with full house 44 loads, as you may expect. Even with Pachmayr grips, it's not pleasant. Still, it's reliable, concealable, and hard to imagine yourself as being undergunned with five rounds of .44 ammo.
That being said, the Ruger is a much better overall firearm, in my own opinion, and if you're worried about overpenetration, look for wildly expanding lighter bullets
Some of the self defense ammo at 125 grains and under - or something like Glaser ammo - won't penetrate as much as say, a .44 Keith style bullet with a full powder charge.
I'm not saying the Bulldog is junk - I have never had a mechanical failure with mine - but I'd take a Ruger .357 if given a choice. It's a lot more fun to play with at the range with target ammo. I believe in shooting your CCW piece, even if you just play with wadcutters on a weekend.