Outside looking in......I have watching this closely from the start.
They are a small company and the customer service representatives are not spring chickens. I am not blaming you, but I told you to call. Hi-Point is the same way. They are not going to send you status updates from their apple watch. They are going to have Mavis pull your number out of the directory and transfer the call.
Shipping should have been reimbursed once a defect was found. The FFL should take care of you if he wants your business.
Accidents happen to expensive guns too. You get a control alt delete. Aluminum guns have a trade offs. Would I be upset, yes. But I would understand. I am looking at an off duty.
Call Nick and see if can reimburse the shipping, he might even take care of the transfer.
Side note: Davidsons has a lifetime warranty on all their firearms, they didn't pay the transfer fee.
Good luck