Not sure if you got the answers you needed, but I found some details you should consider.
I mentioned before that you might need a larger sized bullet than .355 because the sizer does not size to factory, at least in 45acp it doesn't. I was not absolutely sure, but I just noticed that the paperwork provided in the kit tells you what size bullets to use.
In the case of 45acp I was correct, .451 will not be held by the neck tension. Research tells me this sizing is normal for fired cases to prolong the life of the casing. Sizing to factory specs will aid in reducing the case life by overworking the metal. There's nothing unsafe about sizing to factory, but you wont reload your cases as much as sizing slightly larger. 9mm might be different, but now you know that information is provided.
The idea that this kit is not made for semi-auto does not apply to certain calibers. This is due to the kit only sizing the neck and not the body. The kit does, however, full length size some calibers which are the exception. However, cases that are not sized full length can still be used in the same barrel it was fired from, but a plunk test should be done to ensure that.
Chamfer should be done only once on a case and then never again. By using the recommended size bullets you will not need to crimp at all.