Doctor Suarez
Member
Since I saw the light and became a gun owner and gun rights advocate, I’ve been visiting these boards. And heaven knows, though I try to help people with my limited knowledge and argumentative acumen, I’ve generally taken more than I’ve given.
And today’s going to be no different.
Now that shooting and gun rights have become my major hobby and political axe-to-grind, I’ve got a real problem.
My whole family, both on my side and my wife’s, are anti-gun. They’re not Brady-Campaigners or anything, but they’re definitely on the anti-side. So, for now, THEY DON’T KNOW ABOUT ANY OF THIS.
So far, as an apartment dweller, I’ve been able to hide my one handgun and near-weekly range trips. And since this place is a hassle and it’s over the hill from them, they never visit. However, we’re closing on a house in their neighborhood, and even though my wife and I are both doing well in our careers, we needed our parents’ help to get this place. (This is LA, after all.)
So now, with income and space, I’m going to start buying rifles, shotguns, second handguns, and it’s going to suddenly get extremely hard to hide all this from prying eyes.
I hate hiding things from people, and I hate not being up-front about something I believe in, but the amount of shock and trauma this would create in my family is a real boogeyman.
Right now, I have three options:
1) Continue living as a clandestine gunnie, worrying and hiding the truth until such a time that I’m so self-sufficient that their anger no longer matters.
2) Wait for a traumatic, horrible, scary defensive gun use so I can say “Yeah, well, turns out I was right.”
3) Come clean and have a series of horrible fights with people I love who just don’t understand.
I’m really up a creek here. Any advice in any direction would be extremely useful. Also, I’ll be happy to clarify any of the specifics.
Again, thank you all for taking the time to have a look at this. People on these boards have been nothing short of amazing since I started down this road. One thing that constantly proves to me that we’re right in the guns debate is the strength of character I’ve encountered in the firearms community.
Thanks and have a good night.
And today’s going to be no different.
Now that shooting and gun rights have become my major hobby and political axe-to-grind, I’ve got a real problem.
My whole family, both on my side and my wife’s, are anti-gun. They’re not Brady-Campaigners or anything, but they’re definitely on the anti-side. So, for now, THEY DON’T KNOW ABOUT ANY OF THIS.
So far, as an apartment dweller, I’ve been able to hide my one handgun and near-weekly range trips. And since this place is a hassle and it’s over the hill from them, they never visit. However, we’re closing on a house in their neighborhood, and even though my wife and I are both doing well in our careers, we needed our parents’ help to get this place. (This is LA, after all.)
So now, with income and space, I’m going to start buying rifles, shotguns, second handguns, and it’s going to suddenly get extremely hard to hide all this from prying eyes.
I hate hiding things from people, and I hate not being up-front about something I believe in, but the amount of shock and trauma this would create in my family is a real boogeyman.
Right now, I have three options:
1) Continue living as a clandestine gunnie, worrying and hiding the truth until such a time that I’m so self-sufficient that their anger no longer matters.
2) Wait for a traumatic, horrible, scary defensive gun use so I can say “Yeah, well, turns out I was right.”
3) Come clean and have a series of horrible fights with people I love who just don’t understand.
I’m really up a creek here. Any advice in any direction would be extremely useful. Also, I’ll be happy to clarify any of the specifics.
Again, thank you all for taking the time to have a look at this. People on these boards have been nothing short of amazing since I started down this road. One thing that constantly proves to me that we’re right in the guns debate is the strength of character I’ve encountered in the firearms community.
Thanks and have a good night.