wrigh003
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My wife is suddenly interested in firearms. After years of mistrust, I get an email from her yesterday that says "I think I'm ready for a pistol permit and some shooting lessons." Great news! Wait, why?
There have been a series of break ins in our neighborhood. With the downturn in the economy and our home's location in an exterior/rural suburb, we seem to be seeing an uptick in minor thefts, stuff going missing from around people's houses, etc. Occasionally we'll hear about a house actually being burglarized while the occupants are away- the dirtbags/tweakers seem to be aware that in the neighborhood a great many folks are away from home working from about 7 to about 6 every day. Exactly that happened to the folks across the street from my mother-in-law (lives a couple miles away) this week, cleaned them out. About 10AM Tuesday, she's putting the baby down and hears somebody knocking forcefully on our front door. She was busy, so didn't answer right away (wasn't expecting anybody), and by the time she went to check there was nobody there. She heard the truck drive off, so it was somebody in a vehicle.
Now, that could have been the bug guy, somebody selling door to door, etc., and I'm not pessimistic enough about the state of the world or our area yet to really think otherwise. Maybe (hopefully) it was completely above board. But in light of the fact that there have been break ins in the area, etc., my concern is that it COULD have been somebody checking whether there's anybody home. In our neighborhood, folks don't usually come door to door, as the houses here are about 250' or so from each other- it's just too much of a PITA for the average sales guy. That's mostly why the random knock on the door is so unnerving- it's completely out of character for the area.
I guess what I am after here, as far as replies go, is some advice on how to have the conversations with my wife about home security while she's there.Honestly, if we're away, we're insured. I'd prefer not to have my stuff grow legs and walk off, but I'm REALLY not interested in anybody attempting that with my family at home. Links to reading material, etc., possibly targeted at women, would be appreciated. She's home with our infant and preschooler most of the time, and isn't a big fan of answering the door for random people. We've got a 55# lab/shepherd/pitbull/goofball cross that's in and out all day long. Great with the kids, but he's intimidating enough when he sees something unusual, and barks nice and loud. The dog, locked doors, plus a pistol that she only knows how to use in theory- well, suddenly it doesn't seem like enough.
Not sure if she'll ever actually carry (particularly inside a house full of kids), but the permit app is on the table in here waiting to go to the sheriff's office. I hate the world today.
There have been a series of break ins in our neighborhood. With the downturn in the economy and our home's location in an exterior/rural suburb, we seem to be seeing an uptick in minor thefts, stuff going missing from around people's houses, etc. Occasionally we'll hear about a house actually being burglarized while the occupants are away- the dirtbags/tweakers seem to be aware that in the neighborhood a great many folks are away from home working from about 7 to about 6 every day. Exactly that happened to the folks across the street from my mother-in-law (lives a couple miles away) this week, cleaned them out. About 10AM Tuesday, she's putting the baby down and hears somebody knocking forcefully on our front door. She was busy, so didn't answer right away (wasn't expecting anybody), and by the time she went to check there was nobody there. She heard the truck drive off, so it was somebody in a vehicle.
Now, that could have been the bug guy, somebody selling door to door, etc., and I'm not pessimistic enough about the state of the world or our area yet to really think otherwise. Maybe (hopefully) it was completely above board. But in light of the fact that there have been break ins in the area, etc., my concern is that it COULD have been somebody checking whether there's anybody home. In our neighborhood, folks don't usually come door to door, as the houses here are about 250' or so from each other- it's just too much of a PITA for the average sales guy. That's mostly why the random knock on the door is so unnerving- it's completely out of character for the area.
I guess what I am after here, as far as replies go, is some advice on how to have the conversations with my wife about home security while she's there.Honestly, if we're away, we're insured. I'd prefer not to have my stuff grow legs and walk off, but I'm REALLY not interested in anybody attempting that with my family at home. Links to reading material, etc., possibly targeted at women, would be appreciated. She's home with our infant and preschooler most of the time, and isn't a big fan of answering the door for random people. We've got a 55# lab/shepherd/pitbull/goofball cross that's in and out all day long. Great with the kids, but he's intimidating enough when he sees something unusual, and barks nice and loud. The dog, locked doors, plus a pistol that she only knows how to use in theory- well, suddenly it doesn't seem like enough.
Not sure if she'll ever actually carry (particularly inside a house full of kids), but the permit app is on the table in here waiting to go to the sheriff's office. I hate the world today.