For depriming, it is hard to beat a Lee hand press and a universal depriming die from Lee, RCBS, or others. You will also need a shellholder for your caliber (38 spl and 357 share the same one). Anybody's shellholder will do. It can easily be done from your easy chair, and the hollow ram on the Lee captures all the spent primers and debris efficiently. Beware, though, if you ever fill up the ram with spent primers, getting the shellholder off to empty it can be a pain. Mine reliably holds 30 large pistol primers without jamming the shellholder. I've heard that some folks have drilled their ram out a little deeper to extend the capacity a bit.
For repriming, the Lee autoprime is one of the best bargains around, but you'll also need a special, Lee-only, autoprime-only, shellholder for it too. I use one, and am happy with it, but I'm gonna try the new RCBS hand priming tool with the universal shellholder, and a square primer tray that matches the factory packaging better, making it easier to load all the primers in right side up to start with.
Hope this helps,
Andy