HK G3
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Hey Guys,
I don't know what it is, but lately, I just seem to have been having some bad luck.
Anyway, to keep a long story short, a former roommate/friend is currently harassing me, and threatening me. He currently lives on the other side of the country, so it's not obvious that this is a huge security concern, however, he is very mentally disturbed, so I'm taking this seriously.
The reason that he is currently threatening and harassing me is because a few weeks ago, he attempted to commit suicide and kept calling me to tell me about how he was going to crash his car into incoming traffic to "end it all." Obviously, this didn't end up happening, but apparently it came close. For the 2 years when I have known him, this would be the 4th time that he pulled this kind of stunt. Usually he says things like he's going to attack a LEO with a knife in order to prompt the LEO to shoot him dead. The most the police have been able to do, unfortunately, is admit him against his will for 24 hours, at which point they had to release him.
A few days later, I spoke with him, and informed him that I just cannot be expected to help him deal with his emotional problems, and that he needs to see a professional and seek help, and that I did not wish to speak to him any more. At first I had pitied him, and tried to help, but it was just becoming too much of a drain on me, and he is in clear need of professional help now, and not just friendly advice.
He apparently hasn't taken that too well, because he repeatedly called, drunk, and saying that he "needed me" and was crying in some of these phone messages that he left. This weekend, however, he took a far more sinister tone, and left one message where he flat out said, "I am going to be your ghost, I will be following you, haunting you, and making sure you feel the pain that I feel." He sent multiple messages via electronic means stating that he was going to try to lie and get me expelled from school, fired from work, and just generally make my life "a living hell." I know for a fact that he has gone through fairly elaborate lengths to try and get back at people he doesn't like, including filing false reports with state agencies.
He has not yet explicitly stated any intent to physically harm me, but may have implied it. As a student who has received some instruction on the diagnosis/sequella of mental illness, and having known this person for a few years (he really started to slip off the deep end in the past few months), I am fairly positive he has bipolar disorder, believes that a lot of people are out to get him, and continually refuses to seek treatment - a potentially dangerous combination.
So far, I have spoken with the local police department, and indicated that I would like to file a report. They gave me a case #, and told me it would probably take awhile before an officer actually speaks with me and the official complaint is filed. They also said that because I do not have record of him actually physically threatening me, they can't really do anything other than write it down, and potentially contact him, and tell him to knock it off.
I think that I should also change all the locks, because he may have created a duplicate key.
Do any of you guys have any further advice on what I should do to keep myself safe from this type of potential threat? It is much appreciated.
I don't know what it is, but lately, I just seem to have been having some bad luck.
Anyway, to keep a long story short, a former roommate/friend is currently harassing me, and threatening me. He currently lives on the other side of the country, so it's not obvious that this is a huge security concern, however, he is very mentally disturbed, so I'm taking this seriously.
The reason that he is currently threatening and harassing me is because a few weeks ago, he attempted to commit suicide and kept calling me to tell me about how he was going to crash his car into incoming traffic to "end it all." Obviously, this didn't end up happening, but apparently it came close. For the 2 years when I have known him, this would be the 4th time that he pulled this kind of stunt. Usually he says things like he's going to attack a LEO with a knife in order to prompt the LEO to shoot him dead. The most the police have been able to do, unfortunately, is admit him against his will for 24 hours, at which point they had to release him.
A few days later, I spoke with him, and informed him that I just cannot be expected to help him deal with his emotional problems, and that he needs to see a professional and seek help, and that I did not wish to speak to him any more. At first I had pitied him, and tried to help, but it was just becoming too much of a drain on me, and he is in clear need of professional help now, and not just friendly advice.
He apparently hasn't taken that too well, because he repeatedly called, drunk, and saying that he "needed me" and was crying in some of these phone messages that he left. This weekend, however, he took a far more sinister tone, and left one message where he flat out said, "I am going to be your ghost, I will be following you, haunting you, and making sure you feel the pain that I feel." He sent multiple messages via electronic means stating that he was going to try to lie and get me expelled from school, fired from work, and just generally make my life "a living hell." I know for a fact that he has gone through fairly elaborate lengths to try and get back at people he doesn't like, including filing false reports with state agencies.
He has not yet explicitly stated any intent to physically harm me, but may have implied it. As a student who has received some instruction on the diagnosis/sequella of mental illness, and having known this person for a few years (he really started to slip off the deep end in the past few months), I am fairly positive he has bipolar disorder, believes that a lot of people are out to get him, and continually refuses to seek treatment - a potentially dangerous combination.
So far, I have spoken with the local police department, and indicated that I would like to file a report. They gave me a case #, and told me it would probably take awhile before an officer actually speaks with me and the official complaint is filed. They also said that because I do not have record of him actually physically threatening me, they can't really do anything other than write it down, and potentially contact him, and tell him to knock it off.
I think that I should also change all the locks, because he may have created a duplicate key.
Do any of you guys have any further advice on what I should do to keep myself safe from this type of potential threat? It is much appreciated.