going to try my best
not to write a novel in response to this thread!
Not only was I born by a non-gun family, but I was born in an anti-gun state!
My Dad isn't really 'anti,' he is very similar to another poster's dad mentioned in a previous post. He served in the Vietnam War and was awarded the Purple Heart long before I was ever conceived. He was scouting a pick-up zone for his platoon, and was shot by a Vietcong sniper, the shot was clearly aimed for his heart, he heard the shooter's movement just before the shot, and raised his arms while trying to duck behind cover, so instead of piercing his heart, the round went through his left arm in two places
between that, and having to kill enemy soldiers while also seeing his comrades fall and die in battle, my father's attitude as he has made clear to me is along the lines of "I'm glad people like you (being me and others like y'all on this forum) have guns, and you should, but I did my time and don't even want to see a gun again if I can help it." So he isn't 'anti' at all, but 'did his time' and imo earned the right to rely on others now, as he has served and was wounded for our country. As I said that all happened long before I was born, and my mom is kind of fearful in general, so growing up, my interests in firearms were strongly discouraged. I had a talent for finding/trading/buying cap-guns or plastic look-a-like guns as a kid, and my mom would take them away and hide them quite often, not because i did anything bad with them, just to try to 'make them disappear' i guess. For every one she took away, I'd either find it pretty quickly, or acquire another
My dad didn't really mind me playing with toy guns as a kid, and would often watch Clint Eastwood westerns with me, (somehow he enjoyed action movies and especially westerns even though he's had his fill of real violence, haven't figured that out and certainly not complaining!). My mom was the type to find something to do in another room whenever we were watching a gunslinger movie.
I didn't have any uncles or relatives that were into shooting either (not sure if they were 'anti' or just indifferent) As another poster said in a previous post, I got into actual firearms shooting through the boy scouts. Went to summer camp at the age of 12, and my father was one of our troop's chaperones, and he actually went with me to the camp's range and fired a .22 rifle with me the first time I ever shot, which is a fond memory for me. It didn't take me long to realize I had a natural talent with riflery, and I spent the next several summers employed at that summer camp as a shooting sports instructor
As a teenager, I had zero support from my own family in the firearms department, but luckily I had a few friends whose dads were police officers and would talk about guns with me. Also the director of the summer camp I worked at was a former Army Ranger, and FFL holder, (even had a degree in psychology, this guy was amazing), and I spent a lot of time with him asking TONS of questions about firearms, he was very cool about that, answered all my questions very patiently and kindly. In my summers at that camp, I was able to become proficient with .22 rifles, .50 cal black powder rifles, and 20 gauge shotguns. That's about all I had opportunity to shoot until I enrolled in ROTC for two semesters in my one year of college. Long ROTC story short: my commander was VERY impressed with my shooting talents, and as that school was in Springfield, MA, I visited the S&W factory range at least once a month renting EVERYTHING i could get my hands on. Even then, most of my range trips were by my lonesome, which I didn't mind too much, as i was able to get really meditative with my range-time, and really focus on improving my abilities.
Ok this is getting long, going to fastforward and try to wrap this up.
After my time at college, I got an apartment, and decided it was time to own a gun. I knew long before I bought my first gun that it would be an 1851 navy replica, and that's what I got. I was hooked and before a year was through, I had 6 or 7 cap n ball revolvers. I became very proficient with those, and decided to go for my license to carry. Since then my collection has just grown and grown! Since I live in an 'anti' state, I'm the 'gun guy' to most of my friends and family, so when somone inherits a gun they don't want, I've been the lucky recipient on several occasions to provide a good home for it
My parents know I have my license, and don't mind when I talk about shooting and/or guns with my younger brother (who is very into guns thanks to me), but they really don't want to hear or talk about guns with me. When I visit them, I usually carry a beretta tomcat .32 (better than a slingshot, and actually very accurate) in a 'smart carry' holster, so they won't feel a gun when they hug me. Once upon a time my father accidentally discovered my 1911, and was surprisingly cool about it! But I have young nephews and a niece that are often in their home, and they do NOT want any firearms in that house, so as far as they know I respect their wishes, but I have that tomcat at the very least and they don't need to know that. Also whenever I visit my folks, my 1911 and a few mags are in the trunk, and when I leave their house, my first stop is always a nearby bird sanctuary park, which is basically trails in the woods to walk around. The parking lot is almost always empty, and unless you're in the parking lot you can't see it, so is a great place for me to go to the trunk and get my 1911 to holster-up.
i am deeply grateful to the few firearms-friendly adult friends I had as a growing boy, they were role models for gun-safety to me growing up. Most of my shooting abilities are self-taught, and most of my 'adult' getting-into-shooting experiences were by my lonesome at a range (especially handguns), but now-a-days I've brought a very many first-timers to the range with me, and have even converted more than a few of my friends into enthusiastic and talented shooters
at this point I'm the only 'gun guy' in my family, but my brother is increasingly enjoying the world of shooting. When I can afford it I'm going to pay for his carry-license