I also have small hands and having been searching for the perfect "fit" for me for 20 years, and I believe that I finally found it: SIG 225
High quality, reliable, durable, accurate, single-stack, DA/SA pistol. Don't believe anything you hear about them no longer being made! They are currently being made in Germany and are available. I just paid $630 for mine, but CDNN had them recently for $499!! Unfortunately, they're sold out.
I have owned the following pistols: Rossi .38 snubby, Taurus 6" .357, Walther PPK .32acp, Walther PP .32acp, Walther PP .22LR, Steyr M9 9mm, SA Mil-Spec .45acp x2, 1958 Colt Government Model .45acp, Kimber Stainless Targret II 9mm, Dan Wesson Pointman Major 9mm, 1934 Colt Detective Special .38, Colt 1903 Hammerless .32acp, Colt Police Positive MK V .38, S&W Model 10 .38, Ruger Birdshead Vaquero .357, Ruger Bearcat .22LR, SIG 226ST 9mm, Beretta 92FS Vertec 9mm, and the SIG 225. And out of all of those if I had to chose to keep only one........it'd be my new SIG 225!!
I recently shot a Browning Hi-Power MK III, and while it fit my hand well it had a sorry, sorry, gritty, awful trigger!! (sorry Hi-Power fans)
If you have a chance, try the SIG 225, I don't think you'll be disappointed!!
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