Ex-boyfriend kicks in door, new boyfriend kills him

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Good story, actually, in the Minneapolis Star-Tribune: http://www.startribune.com/467/story/875873.html

Ex-boyfriend kicks in door, new boyfriend kills him
Erik Richter, armed with a loaded gun, broke into his ex-girlfriend's Wright County apartment after having threatened her. Samantha Simons' current boyfriend, Eric Cegon, shot him.

By Jim Adams, Star Tribune
Last update: December 14, 2006 – 10:22 PM

The crashing back door snapped Eric Cegon and his girlfriend awake in her apartment. Fear grew as they heard feet rapidly climbing the stairs to their barricaded bedroom door about 3:30 a.m. Wednesday.
Cegon, 30, grabbed the shotgun next to their bed and sat up, hoping the locked door would hold. He said he knew the intruder was the man who had threatened his life and held a knife to his girlfriend a week earlier.

The girlfriend, Samantha Simons, covered up her 2-year-old son and screamed as her ex-boyfriend kicked in the door, knocking over the small dresser lodged against it.

"I knew if that door came open what I would do," Cegon said Thursday. He fired the 12-gauge shotgun he had borrowed from a friend two weeks before to protect himself. The blast knocked Erik A. Richter, 35, to the floor.

A loaded gun fell from his hand.

"You killed me," the couple recall Richter saying.

Cegon squeezed the trigger again.

"I shot him again to make sure he didn't get up," Cegon said. "I'll never forget the smell."

Simons, 21, said that Cegon had to do it or that Richter "would have killed us all."

His deadly break-in was the second time he had violated a court order not to contact his former girlfriend, Simons, or her new boyfriend, Cegon. Richter was scheduled to appear in court Wednesday on a terroristic threats charge for repeatedly threatening to kill Cegon since Nov. 4, when he broke Cegon's vehicle's windows, court records said. Richter is the father of Simons' son.

Cegon and Simons were questioned but not arrested, said Lt. Todd Hoffman of the Wright County Sheriff's Office.

County Attorney Thomas Kelly said that a week before Richter died, he threatened Simons with a kitchen knife and said he would kill Cegon. Richter was charged with assault in that case.

State law allows a person to defend himself or others in a home if the person believes he or she faces an imminent threat of great bodily harm or death, Kelly said. He said he will decide whether any charges are warranted against Cegon after the investigation is over and an autopsy done on Richter, who did not fire his handgun.

Cegon "may very well have been justified in taking another one's life," Kelly said. He added that Richter told Simons that he "refused to let her go, and said if he couldn't have her, nobody would."

Kelly said he wasn't aware of any drugs or alcohol being involved in Wednesday's altercation. He noted that Richter, of Watertown, was sentenced to four years in prison for a methamphetamine conviction in 1998.

On Thursday, Cegon and Simons recounted the harrowing shooting as they sat in her mother's townhouse in Rockford. Simons' mother, Sarah Wickstrom, kept an eye on her 2-year-old grandson, Jackson, who had just come inside after splashing in puddles. His trucks and toys were piled nearby under a Christmas garland of blue tinsel.

The couple said they had barricaded their bedroom door at night for the last week, expecting Richter to make good on his threats to kill Cegon. Simons said Richter had showed her a sawed-off shotgun with a special grip that he planned to use.

They expected him Tuesday night because he had a court date Wednesday on the terroristic threats made while he banged on the doors and windows of Cegon's parents' home in Rockford, where the couple were staying on Nov. 4.

The county attorney said Richter had posted $10,000 bail on the threats charge and apparently violated a condition of his release by threatening Simons with a knife Dec 6. A warrant had been issued for his arrest after that incident, Kelly said.

A judge could have sent Richter to jail for that release violation, and Simons said Richter didn't want to go back.

Cegon said that he had never used a gun before but that he decided to borrow a shotgun two weeks ago from a friend who showed him how to use it. He said he had met Richter while working at a feed elevator. Cegon said it felt like Richter had been hunting him for the past month.

After the predawn shooting, Cegon sat in fear, disbelief and shock. He said it happened less than a minute after they heard the back door kicked in, ripping off the security chain. He said he shot Richter in the chest from about 5 feet. He continued to hold the gun on him while handing the phone to Simons to call 911.

"I was crying, and they said to calm down," Simons recalled of the call. "I said my ex-boyfriend broke into the house and we shot him."

Cegon put the shotgun back in its case and went to let police into the house in the 8800 block of Walnut Place.

"We didn't want any problems with him," Cegon said. "I didn't do it. He did it to himself."

He said he won't keep a gun in his home anymore.

"I never had one. I never hunted. I never wanted one," he said, as Simons held his hand. She said she has had nightmares and went to see a doctor about sleeping medicine Thursday. She said that she won't return to her apartment and that she has given notice to the landlord.

Simons said her son woke up during the shooting and asked for a bottle. She hopes he doesn't remember the night his father died.

"I covered his eyes, so he didn't see. I hope he doesn't remember any of this," she said. "It's not going to be a good Christmas."

Added Wickstrom, her mother: "I just thank God that my daughter and my grandson are still here."


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All good except I don't understand the not wanting to ever have a gun after that? I mean, really...had he not been in possession of a shotgun they would both be dead. Should that not just reinforce the idea that you should have some sort of gun in your home for protection?
 
Spare Tire

Yeah, I can understand that rationale.

I mean, really, if I had to live through the trauma of a blowout on the highway and had to change that tire, I wouldn't want another spare hanging around my car to remind me of that awful day!

And that kitchen fire that I had to put out. Man, the smell from all that smoke! I'll never have another fire extinguisher -- it would remind me too much of the horror of nearly losing my house.

Whatever you do, dude, get rid of those safety devices. Bury those memories.

Denial is your friend.
 
The blast knocked Erik A. Richter, 35, to the floor. A loaded gun fell from his hand.
"You killed me," the couple recall Richter saying.
Cegon squeezed the trigger again.
"I shot him again to make sure he didn't get up,"
Hopefully they won't charge him for "excessive use..." for the second shot.

I can understand why he said he'd never have a gun again (don't agree with him however). He borrowed the shotgun for the specific threat of the ex-boyfriend (this could also be used against him in court :uhoh: ). That threat is gone, so he feels he doesn't need a gun anymore.
 
"I shot him again to make sure he didn't get up,"
Judge: Sir, why did you shoot the deceased 2 times?

Current boyfriend: Well your Honor, one wasn't enough and three would have been too many.

My .02 - the 'ex' deserved what he got and the gene pool is that much cleaner.
 
"the gene pool is that much cleaner."

Too late. The little boy is his, according to the mother.


"refused to let her go, and said if he couldn't have her, nobody would."

Stupid. Plenty of fish in the sea.
 
"I shot him again to make sure he didn't get up," Cegon said. "I'll never forget the smell."
Pretty sure my version of this would have been "the gun was still in his hand and he was moving."
 
Rockford is split by the Crow River. This must have happened on the West side of the Crow River (Wright County). Had it been the East side, they would have been in Hennipen county (which includes Minneapolis, etc.) and I think the comments from the law enforcement and county attorney would have been much different.

Ryan
 
give the shooter a little time break. He did something that is against the grain, of most human souls, to take another life on purpose. Those of us, who have been prior military or leo, train for instinct, to get the clouds out, to do it fast and furious. Civilians aint. Once he lets some time pass, he may see things different, and get another shotgun, 'just in case'.
 
I think that his reaction is common so close to the event.My wife said "I'll never do this again at the birth of our oldest daughter".As he gets some distance from the event re-evaluation may show him that what he did was correct and that owning a gun is a good thing.
 
County Attorney Thomas Kelly said that a week before Richter died, he threatened Simons with a kitchen knife and said he would kill Cegon. Richter was charged with assault in that case.

State law allows a person to defend himself or others in a home if the person believes he or she faces an imminent threat of great bodily harm or death, Kelly said. He said he will decide whether any charges are warranted against Cegon after the investigation is over and an autopsy done on Richter, who did not fire his handgun.

Cegon "may very well have been justified in taking another one's life," Kelly said. He added that Richter told Simons that he "refused to let her go, and said if he couldn't have her, nobody would."
What the heck does that DA expect? That Cegon should have waited for Richter to shoot the girlfriend and child before turning the gun on Cegon. Would that have made it self defense?

That DA is in serious need of a reality check and I for one really hope he loses his job.
 
A loaded gun fell from his hand.

"You killed me," the couple recall Richter saying.

Cegon squeezed the trigger again.

"I shot him again to make sure he didn't get up," Cegon said. "I'll never forget the smell."

Mr. Cegon now stands a very good chance of being charged with manslaughter, excessive force, and wrongful death (he may have survived the first shot) since it looks like the assailant was laying on the floor, unarmed, and successfully "stopped" from doing further harm. With rights come responsbilities. If it occured just as Mr. Cegon stated, then he doesn't get credit for a justifiable homicide and most likely could get charged with manslaughter.

In addition, you need to think about what to say and what not to say after a shooting (regardless if you were in the right or not). If the perp has any relatives they are going to make a field day of that statement in Civil Court. Not to mention the press.......

"A+" for protecting his girlfriend and baby

"D-" for proper application of force (based on his statement)

"F" for making a statement before talking to his lawyer
 
The BG had dropped the gun.., but it was still in his reach, he had said plenty of times that he would kill, he came there to do just that. The second shot likely saved there lives as well if not better than the first if he was trying to get up. As for a civil suit, the person with the best claim for wrongful death is likely the GF as her child was probably a dependant of the deceased although very dubiously.

If it weren't fpr the shotgun you'd have heard frantic and hopeless 911 tapes and everyone would have been dead, it's happened plenty of times before. Restraining orders are a joke, although it will help exonerate the victims. I'm sure if this were NJ, NY, CT, MA, or Cali it could be very possible that the hero would be sitting in jail while the DA made sure that none of the BGs violent past or restraining orders were entered as evidence.

Instead of voicing his continued distrust of guns the dude should make an effort to say how his friends shotgun saved his GFs, her child and his own life, and that more people should consider the option of being armed for self defense.
 
Have yet fo find myself in a situation where deadly force is necessary. And I'm not exactly looking forward to taking that test. Judging from the way I responded to taking my first Deer, I don't think the shooter getting rid of the gun is that off the wall. We are after all talking about a Human Life. IMHO we didn't loose a Nobel Laureate but it was none the less a life.
 
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