Farewell to Someone Amazing

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Well guys and gals, I haven't talked about it much since it happened, but I recieved closure this weekend.

My Grandfather passed away on May 23 of this year. He fought emphazima for the last 9-10 years, and it finally took it's toll. He will be sorely missed by friends and family, and his ashes were buried this past Saturday.

He served in the Navy in the '60's, and was aboard a radar-aircraft during the Cuban Missile Crisis, and often told us Grandkids that he could see some of the missiles out of a cabin window.

In boot camp, he qualified as expert with the M1 Garand (as he told us) and the M1911 pistol.

But he was never much of a gun-guy. As far as I know, he has only owned two firearms in his life, an old 12 gauge bolt shotgun, and an 1898 Danish Krag Jorgensen, which he handed down to my Uncle and Dad respectively. Firearms, to him, were for hunting only. He was never much for having them for anything else. But he understood the importance of practice.

When I was quite a bit younger, I forget the age, my dad gave me my first rifle as a gift. My Marlin Model 80 .22. My dad took me shooting as often as he could, but when he started working for the railroad, he couldn't take me as much. It kinda bummed me out.

My Grandfather had noticed, and surprised me one day when going for a visit, holding my cased rifle and ammo in his hands as we walked in the door. He told me that he was taking me shooting.

I can still remember the width of my smile that day, and the knowledge he imparted on to me during those range visits, even when the emphazima was starting to take a higher toll on him. He wanted to make sure I learned safety, and how to shoot accurately. Under his tutelage was I able to sever a cat-tail from it's stem at 25 yards through my scope, off-hand. Looking back to that day, after that shot, I can't seem to forget that smile.

The very last time I ever went shooting with him was when I was 16, when my dad had purchased some 8x58R ammunition for that old Danish Krag. We all got to shoot it once, starting with Grandpa, Dad, my Uncle, Me, and my brother. There's still ammo for it sitting around, but dad only takes it out on special occasions. But I remember, Grandpa hit his target with no effort, it seemed.

I just wanted to post this so you guys can see who had some of the most profound impact on my--our hobby.
 
He's done a lot for our family. Done a lot for me. Always made sure we were well cared for. Taught me a lot that I know today. Made me who I am, today.

Thank you for those words, Reaver.
 
If only alzheimer's hadn't gotten my grandfather, I would been able to go shooting with him.

Hold on to your memories, they may be the last thing you ever have.

Sorry for your loss,

- TNG
 
Some of the best times at the range were spent with just me and him, plinking with the .22. He never shot, but he never had to. He had a way of explaining things that made everything make so much sense. He's the one that taught me to surprise myself everytime I went to make a shot. Taught me the fundamentals of off hand, and because of that, I shoot better off hand than at a rest.

Thanks guys, the kind words are making it easier to keep smiling. I appreciate it.

TNG- I am truly sorry. I would have liked you to spend some time at the range with your grandfather. One of those truly bonding moments.
 
Sorry about your loss, but at least it wasn't a sudden one.
Sounds like you need to go to the range and fire some rounds off in his memory and practice all that he's taught you. Maybe see if your dad will let you dig out the Krag and the 12 gauge and take them along too :)
 
Lost my Grandad in 96 and my Dad in 05. Their guns are in my safe. I always knew they'd one day be in that safe, I just never wanted it to be so.

Take one or two to the range on occasion. I'll spend a few extra minutes cleaning it, reflecting and remembering.

The guns are great, the memories are even better.
 
Better yet, get my Dad out to the range too. We only have around 10 or so rounds left out of 20, maybe more. I'm not sure if he's shot that since. The shotgun is my uncles, and he'd go anytime. Fond memories there, need to get out there with my uncle and Dad.
 
Sorry about your grandfather. The man is gone but the memories will live on. When people start telling you that you remind them of the man, you'll smile again. Because you know why.
 
Thank you very very much for sharing that!!



I'm sure I'm not the only one here that it got thinking about their own grandfathers. Times spent, knowledge gathered and love shared. That he didn't shoot shows how much joy he got from watching you and how much pride he had that you listened and followed his words.
 
I was thinking about this thread earlier today and how our firearms can bridge generations and help cultivate the bonds that we have with friends and family.

I lost my father suddenly in 2005. We were pretty close. I was 43 at the time, he was 69.

He and my Mother were divorced years ago and he was living alone at the time he died.

The day after his death, I went by his house to remove firearms and other valuables from his house just to be safe. As I moved through his place I was finding bits and pieces of his past and experiencing a lot of memories. I was finding things that I had forgotten about, but apparently he still held on to.

I got to his closet and found a cased long gun. I opened the case and there was his Browning A5. He had numerous guns but this one was special, always had been.

I was with him when he bought it back in the late 60's. I was probably 8 or 9 years old.

He explained to me how buying that shotgun was a "lifetime achievement" for him. It was the best of the best and that's what men hunted with. He told me that guns will come and guns will go, but certain guns were destined to be handed down because they were special.

This was that gun.

As I slid that gun from it's case I was overwhelmed with emotion. I experienced the cry they say you will have. I sat on the floor in that closet, a grown man, and wept like a baby. I was holding the gun that he had intended to hand down to me. I was in that moment of transition where I became the caretaker of his Browning.

I left his house with an Inland M-1 Carbine, a Winchester 1892, a BAR in .270, his Ruger 10/22 and a couple of other guns including my Grandfathers S&W 38 revolver. And the Browning.

I put that A5 in my safe, front row, center. A man's gun. Now it was my gun. Thanks, Dad.
 
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