carl,
Congrats on finishing your 80% lower.
For refinishing you can either do a do-it-yourself method or send it out to be finished. The only problem is that once it's milled your refinisher has to have an FFL to do the work and most won't take them unless they are engraved to ATF specs for serial number, owner, etc. IF you want to have it engraved with the required info there are two FFL engravers many people use-
www.identmarking.com and Sureshotprecision marking. I've had poor customer service from both- Identmarking wouldn't answer simple emails and Sureshotprecision took five months to do my lowers.
Once it's engraved you can send it out for type 3 anodizing but the cost negates any cost savings you were looking at in completing your lower. The cost was around $120 not including shipping for each lower for an FFL refinisher..
Then there's the finishing option of doing it yourself with cerakote, Duracoat, etc or doing home anodizing (type 2 which is not as tough as type 3 but is fine for most firearm parts) with materials available from
www.caswellplating.com. If you're only doing one lower the cost to buy the anodizing supplies is not worth the expense.
I've found that doing the engraving before milling is far easier (no FFL engraver needed as it's just a paperweight at that point) and cheaper--about $30 each. I've done the home anodizing route and am quite pleased- the lowers take a deep black color and seem to stand up to abuse well.
So you have a number of options to pursue. I've found that with completed and anodized lowers running about $60 that it's easier to just buy one. Good luck.
best wishes- oldandslow