At least with the rifle dies, you can get a "dead length seater die" from Lee. It actually contacts the shell holder, so you can get the same amount of turret lift each time, and the dead length is the same. +1 on the variations in bullet ogive to tip dimensions. The Lee dies seat on the ogive, at least in the rifle dies.
Unless you are loading to the limit of your magazine length, Pistol bullets variations in length don't seem to make that much difference in accuracy, at least not to me they don't. If your concern is excessive pressure due to bullet seating depth, you would do better to get a bigger cartridge or different powder, IMO.
I like RCBS dies too, but I really like the Lee finger adjustable dies for the seating die. I just wish they were a scosh longer so I could use them more often in my Dillon 1050.