ft lbs of energy dont kill animals bullets do.
Bullets only kill animals if they have ft lbs of energy. Bullets that don't move don't kill anything and if they move then they have ft lbs of energy.
The problem with kinetic energy as a primary criterion is that a gun is not a directed kinetic energy weapon...it's a directed PROJECTILE weapon.
It's meaningless to try to make a distinction between a directed kinetic energy weapon and a directed projectile weapon because kinetic energy and projectiles are essentially two sides of the same coin. A projectile, by definition has velocity and mass and that means it has kinetic energy. Anything that has kinetic energy must have mass and must be moving and therefore, by definition, is a projectile.
Kinetic energy is simply a measure of the projectile's
potential to do work. There are many reasons why a projectile might not live up to it's energy "potential", however that doesn't change the meaning or validity of kinetic energy.
For what it's worth, I don't believe kinetic energy tells the whole story (or even comes close to telling the whole story) when it comes to terminal performance, but it is one part of many that makes up the puzzle that is terminal performance.
I also don't believe that arbitrary KE thresholds are particularly worthwhile. I had a friend who hunted deer with a .308 bolt rifle and a .357Mag levergun and said that his quickest kills were with the .357Mag, not the .308.
Clearly there's a little more to this puzzle than JUST energy, but that doesn't mean we should ignore it or try to explain it away.
SO, a 55 gr .243 is SCREAMING fast, and has HUGE initial KE, BUT it has very low mass - that's why it accelerates quickly
It accelerates in the time it takes it to get out of the barrel of the gun and that's a function of the pressure vs time curve of the cartridge discharge, bullet/barrel friction, barrel length as well as bullet mass. You are correct that all else being equal, a lighter bullet will accelerate faster and will probably attain a higher kinetic energy level.
...but also why it will DECELERATE quickly in tissue- and it loses kinetic energy EXPONENTIALLY as is slows.
How much a bullet resists being stopped is more a function of momentum than it is kinetic energy and momentum tends to favor heavier projectiles. So yes, all else being equal, a lighter bullet will tend to penetrate less and will decelerate faster. That's not so much a consequence of it's having higher energy as much as it is that it's not as efficient a penetrator due to it's having less momentum.
As far as the bullet "losing" kinetic energy, that is certainly true. However, while the bullet "loses" the kinetic energy, the kinetic energy is not "lost" to the entire system. It is, in fact, the loss (more accurately the rate of change of loss) of that kinetic energy by the bullet that determines, in large amount, the size of the temporary stretch cavity which, in rifle bullets, can do significant tissue damage.
Again, that's not all that matters, you still need sufficient penetration as even a very large but very shallow temporary stretch cavity won't do the job effectively. Basically you need kinetic energy, but you really need that kinetic energy balanced with enough momentum and with proper projectile design in order for things to work the way they should.