jakemccoy
Member
I’ve wasted my fair share of time arguing with anti-gun people. One of my friends is a typical anti-gun person with victim mentality, etc., the whole nine yards. She periodically comes to my house with a group of friends to go wine tasting. One night an issue comes up about a paper target I mistakenly had lying around. She makes the remark, "You shoot these targets with BB guns, right?"
I hesitate to answer because the truth would force me to reveal I own guns that are substantially more powerful than a BB gun. That's not something I advertise to people in my house who aren't super close to me. I answer anyway because my personal rule on that issue is that I answer truthfully when asked because it may be an opportunity to show others positive aspects of gun ownership. When people visit my home, they tend to have more respect for me.
I respond, “No, I shoot those targets with real guns and real ammo; I own real guns.”
She goes on to say some stuff in typical anti-gun fashion. Sites like thehighroad.com prepare me for these situations. I don’t want to cloud the point of my post here with the details of what she says. Just fill in the blanks with whatever anti-gun people typically say and that’s good enough.
I don’t get caught up. I simply say, “Well, if you’re afraid of guns, then you shouldn’t own one.”
(Silence)
My last comment ends any debate before it gets started, and it’s definitely about to get started. This woman is an attorney and so am I.
My last comment compromises her position in front of her other friends that respect her as a leader. My comment implies that the problem is not with guns; the problem is with her. My comment also lets her know that I have no intention of entertaining any discussion of why I should not have guns. She’ll probably ask me to take her to the pistol range the next time she visits…lol
I share this story as an approach you might want to take if you want to say something but don’t want to get caught up in some long debate that goes nowhere.
I hesitate to answer because the truth would force me to reveal I own guns that are substantially more powerful than a BB gun. That's not something I advertise to people in my house who aren't super close to me. I answer anyway because my personal rule on that issue is that I answer truthfully when asked because it may be an opportunity to show others positive aspects of gun ownership. When people visit my home, they tend to have more respect for me.
I respond, “No, I shoot those targets with real guns and real ammo; I own real guns.”
She goes on to say some stuff in typical anti-gun fashion. Sites like thehighroad.com prepare me for these situations. I don’t want to cloud the point of my post here with the details of what she says. Just fill in the blanks with whatever anti-gun people typically say and that’s good enough.
I don’t get caught up. I simply say, “Well, if you’re afraid of guns, then you shouldn’t own one.”
(Silence)
My last comment ends any debate before it gets started, and it’s definitely about to get started. This woman is an attorney and so am I.
My last comment compromises her position in front of her other friends that respect her as a leader. My comment implies that the problem is not with guns; the problem is with her. My comment also lets her know that I have no intention of entertaining any discussion of why I should not have guns. She’ll probably ask me to take her to the pistol range the next time she visits…lol
I share this story as an approach you might want to take if you want to say something but don’t want to get caught up in some long debate that goes nowhere.