The expander plug in Lee dies is a two step expander, just like the Lyman expander - it is pointless to buy both.
I do not have that problem with lead bullets - I load a lot of them in .38Spl, .40S&W, and .44Spl, all with Lee dies (I rarely use the Lyman dies anymore except for the magnums, which I do in lower volume on my single stage press), and when properly adjusted, I get zero lead shaving with the Lee expander. That minor taper in the top step is more than sufficient for all of my lead reloads. The step is just as distinct on the Lee expander as it is on the Lyman, and my bullets do not fall over on either my 1000 progressive or Classic Turret presses.I checked my Lee 45 ACP expander plug, and sure enough there is about a .010 flare before getting to the belling base. The problem with Lee dies in general is that they are too tight for being a good choice for loading lead bullets. I still need their powder through expander die to support the powder measure on my turret. The whole point with an M-die is to avoid lead shaving without overworking the brass unnecessarily. The distinct step in the M-die is a definite aid in getting a bevel base bullet to stand for seating.
I use the standard Lee expanding powder through die that came with my die sets. I only load lead in both 9MM and 45ACP. I don't have any lead shaving and I have cases with over 20 reloads. Neck splitting is not a problem for me. Primer pockets on some cases enlarging is my worst problem.Before I got the Lyman M die I had about 8-10 reloads before splitting, no matter how the Lee expander die was adjusted. After reading on THR about the Lyman, I gave it a try. Now, I don't get ANY splitting, on cases which some have had more than 20 reloads. Can't beat that. I think it's something about the geometry of the Lyman which makes it so much better.
The step is just as distinct on the Lee expander as it is on the Lyman,
and my bullets do not fall over on either my 1000 progressive or Classic Turret presses.
Why would you want to expand deeper into the case? All that does is reduce neck tension. The shorter base of the Lee expander is another of the reasons I prefer it over Lyman for .40S&W; even with moderate crimp I never experience any setback. I do not play with the 9mm toys, but I assume the same benefit would apply.
I use there plugs for the Lee Universal belling die. They work great and I highly recommend them. If you're playing with cast bullets and need to make the bullets a bit fat, an NOE plug for 7 bucks beats buying a brand new "M" die.I'd like to point out that NOE makes M-style expanders for the Lee Powder through expanders. They used to have more than they show now, guess they aren't selling that well.
http://noebulletmolds.com/NV/index.php?cPath=91&osCsid=6j0rj208pcgil8dt6bjb0mo903
I use there plugs for the Lee Universal belling die.