Call me a sucker for a placebo, but that extended mag felt great in my hand!
Feels much better than the short mag, but if you get the chance, try a short mag with the Pearce Grip Extender. I think it actually feels better than the long mag, but it probably depends on your hand size? I keep telling the guys at the local shop they need to have a Pearce installed on a displayed XD, as I see a lot of folks checking 'em out, but they look to me like they're mulling over that dangling pinky. He stocks a few Pearce extenders, but usually Glocks only, and they're hanging on the wall.
BUT, I went back to Gander Mtn again yesterday, and the guy at the gun counter said he would go down from $629 to $575. I didn't even haggle for this, so how much should I try to haggle him down?
Can't tell ya 'bout the XDM, but in my neck o' the woods, an XDSC goes for $475 (I paid $535 with Trijicons). 'Course, we're blessed with a "no dicker" shop-he hangs a low price on his stuff and that's it. Unless I find something on sale, I've pretty much given up on other shops-I hate dickering over price.
I've read of folks in here buying a "stripped" XD-just the gun-none of the extras they foist on you with the usual models. Don't know how available these are, in what calibers, and how much cheaper, but I wish I had known 'bout it before I bought my last XDSC.
The extras ain't bad, but I'd save the money and buy your own stuff. An UPLULA beats the heck outta the XD speedloader, and maybe a DeSantis holster and mag pouch instead of the XD models?
Don't know how many choices you have in your area, but you need to search out a small gun shop-they often have the best prices.
EDIT
Sorry to all you Glock lovers out there, but Glock is out of the running. I spent a good amount of time with a couple of them yesterday and they felt absolutely ugly in my hands.
Tell me you didn't go there!
Expect someone to be along shortly to accuse you of being a Glock hater!
Anywho-apparently you don't have a "Glock wrist". They never pointed naturally for me, and since there are plenty of other choices around, I never owned one.
Just for giggles, I like to shut my eyes and aim at my target-if a gun points naturally for me, when I open my eyes it's darn close to being on target.
When doing my usual dry fire practice, I often use the closed eyes drill to retain ye olde muscle memory-sure helps with bringing the gun into a firing position quickly.