While I'm sure it varies from person to person, I personally find recoil/controllability from my Rohrbaugh roughly equivalent to my Airweight J-frames (442, 642, 37-2) firing standard pressure loads, certainly less than when firing +P. It is night/day when compared to my Seecamp LWS380.
As for cost, I had originally considered yet another Kahr PM9, hoping I would get one that would be reliable this time. However, as I have had less than stellar experiences with assorted stock Kahrs before, I was considering one of the guns that Cylinder & Slide had worked over, reasoning that they should be reliable. However, at that price point, I realized that the Rohrbaugh was similarly (slightly less, actually) priced, and I didn't have the negative baggage as I did with Kahrs. It was also in the format that I wished Kahr had made, that being aluminum frame instead of polymer.
Anyway, at this point in my life, I have a rather large selection of handguns that I can carry whenever I like. More often than not, that is my Rohrbaugh R9S as either an off-duty gun, or an on-duty concealed back-up gun.