Mr. Meadows
I still must not be making myself clear. My dad didn't concede the issue, he just didn't care about his guns enough to even make an issue out of it in the first place. He didn't lose anything. Just because YOU think that my dad should have put his foot down doesn't mean that he thought so. It wasn't an issue of control, and I take offense that someone that knows nothing about me or my family would ask a thing such as, "What else did you mom made your dad do?" Frankly, if my father was as much of a gun-lover as the folks on this board, there would be guns in the house. I happen to agree with you that the husband should not concede such things if they feel they should not, but my father does not have the same vigor for owning firearms as the people here. He's not an anti, he doesn't think guns are evil, or anything like that. If you were to say that my father should take more seriously his duty to protect our family, I would have to agree. My mother has stayed home with my brothers and I all of our lives, and my father works harder than anyone I know in order to provide for his family. Right now he's paying every cent of my college tuition. I owe him more than anybody else in my life besides Jesus Christ. My father understands his responsibilities to provide for his family, with perhaps his single fault in this matter being that he does not see the full importance of being prepared to defend his loved ones from physical harm from someone who has a weapon.
This, however, is not a case of my mother controlling my father, but rather of my father not realizing the importance of firearms for self-defence and freedom. An important issue, yes, but you have misunderstood.
Another, thing, Mr. Meadows. Not all women are as you say. My mother does not control my father, nor has she ever attempted to. I have been with my girlfriend for over three and a half years, and she has never, and will never attempt to control me. YES, I AM SURE! I agree that there are women like that out there, sir, but if that is the only type you have met, I am here to tell you that there are women out there who are different.
Mr. Meadows, I do not wish to offend you or to begin a flame war here, and perhaps I am being too defensive. However, I respect my father more than anyone else on earth, and I love my family very dearly, so I feel compelled to speak in his, and our, defense.
I suppose I have already hi-jacked your thread enough, so I will save my FOID card troubles for another place.
Respectfully,
Ben