Last time to the Range with Russ

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My best friend, Russ, died in 2007 from heart attack coupled with complications due to advanced Multiple Sclerosis. His wife Sandy, my wife, Russ's younger brother, a close friend of Russ's and I were at his bedside when he passed.
I had known Russ for about 20 years or so. He had been an avid outdoorsman; hunting and fishing with every spare moment when in-season. He was also an enthusiastic shooter and reloader and was the guy that got me started reloading metallic cartridges. Though I had been reloading shotshells for my 10 ga. and 12 ga. shotguns for about 10 years, Russ was my mentor for all things when it came to metallic cartridges. He had a depth of knowledge of reloading, bullet casting and most things firearms matched by few people I have met.
Before Russ passed away, I used to love to tease him with light hearted practical jokes and things to help keep his mind active. He also needed fine motor skill exercise to keep what he had from degrading any more than it absolutely had to. I would often visit him on a Friday at lunchtime and would stay for a couple hours or three discussing politics, neighbors or whatever was on his mind at the time. During one of these Friday afternoon sessions he began wandering down the rabbit hole of "What to do with his remains when the time comes." He was adamant that he wanted to be cremated, though he was unsure where to have his remains scattered. He was born in northern Minnesota but did most of his growing up and adult life in Arizona. He spent most of his Coast Guard service up in Puget Sound. Then, too, Russ had hunted all over Arizona from down around Patagonia to the Strip on the north rim of the Grand Canyon. Also, in his later years, he had become an annual visitor to Wyoming for a charitable "Helluva Hunt" put on by a rancher during antelope season. So you can understand the dilemma. My tease to him on this particular Friday was: "Well, Russ, after Sandy brings your ashes home, I'm going to ask her for an ounce or two of them and I am going to load you into some shotgun shells as shot buffer and take you out to the range one more time." He just smiled and nodded his head. I could see he liked that idea.

I did load Russ's ashes into two boxes of 12 ga. shotshells. One box was 1-1/4 oz. 5 shot field loads for upland gamebirds and the other was 1 oz. 7-1/2 shot for clay targets. Most of the field loads I used pheasant hunting in South Dakota with my brother and our sons a year or so after Russ died. A few of the target loads I used during a Sporting Clays shoot a couple years ago near Picacho Peak here in AZ.

This last Wednesday, Russ's brother John and I were at the Rio Salado clay target range for some Trap practice. I had about 15 shells remaining of the target loads I had with "Russ buffer" and showed them to John.
"We gotta use 'em!" He says. "Russ would be really disappointed if we didn't!"
So we did.
As I retreated back to the seats and set my Browning Double Auto into the rack, one of the oldtimers seated there commented on the old Browning: "What is that one?" I told him. "Must be pretty rare. Can't say I have ever heard of one let alone seen one. By the way what do you have loaded in them shells? I would swear I seen somethin' white come out the end of the barrel with some of them shots."
"I guess that would have been my 'Russell Shot Buffer'."
"Your what?"
"'Russell Shot Buffer'. I promised my best friend, Russ, that I would load some shells with his ashes as shot buffer and take him out to the range one last time. So here we are, and we did."
The oldtimer was silent for a minute. Then he elbowed his buddy next to him. "Didja hear that? They were shooting shells loaded with his buddy's ashes! How cool is that??!!"
There were maybe six or eight shooters present that heard what we had done and all of them were nodding their heads in approval and all smiling.

It was a very good day at the range. :)
 
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Great story. Great story.

As it happens, I took a buddy out prairie dog hunting for his last hunt. There was a spot in Superior CO that was real easy to get to, and you could walk 100 feet to a shooting point.

But he was suffering from esophageal cancer and he passed away a couple of days later when I drove by his house I noticed the Coroner's van there.

Not such a great story. But yours was.
 
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Touching story. Thanks for posting it. Reminded me of a guy who passed back in the mid 1970's and his fishing buddy poured his ashes from his fishing boat into the St. Lawrence River in Northern NY State / Canadian border at one of the spots they had fished for many years. I'm considering cremation in my final plans and wherever my ashes wind up I have the ashes of my last dog that can go there with me.
 
Touching story. Thanks for posting it. Reminded me of a guy who passed back in the mid 1970's and his fishing buddy poured his ashes from his fishing boat into the St. Lawrence River in Northern NY State / Canadian border at one of the spots they had fished for many years. I'm considering cremation in my final plans and wherever my ashes wind up I have the ashes of my last dog that can go there with me.
I like that.

You know what Will Rogers had to say about dogs: "If dogs don't go to Heaven, then I want to go where where they go."
 
No tears for me but it was a great tribute to your friend

I used to travel to Elephant Butte, NM to fish twice a year and there was a retiree that fished the bluff side of an island in the lake regularly. His wish was for his retiree friends to scatter his ashes there and hold a small memorial if they wished. They did and named the bluff Tom's Rock. It was never on a lake map and almost all that knew him have passed. I wonder if the name remains today.
 
My best friend, Russ, died in 2007 from heart attack coupled with complications due to advanced Multiple Sclerosis. His wife Sandy, my wife, Russ's younger brother, a close friend of Russ's and I were at his bedside when he passed.
I had known Russ for about 20 years or so. He had been an avid outdoorsman; hunting and fishing with every spare moment when in-season. He was also an enthusiastic shooter and reloader and was the guy that got me started reloading metallic cartridges. Though I had been reloading shotshells for my 10 ga. and 12 ga. shotguns for about 10 years, Russ was my mentor for all things when it came to metallic cartridges. He had a depth of knowledge of reloading, bullet casting and most things firearms matched by few people I have met.
Before Russ passed away, I used to love to tease him with light hearted practical jokes and things to help keep his mind active. He also needed fine motor skill exercise to keep what he had from degrading any more than it absolutely had to. I would often visit him on a Friday at lunchtime and would stay for a couple hours or three discussing politics, neighbors or whatever was on his mind at the time. During one of these Friday afternoon sessions he began wandering down the rabbit hole of "What to do with his remains when the time comes." He was adamant that he wanted to be cremated, though he was unsure where to have his remains scattered. He was born in northern Minnesota but did most of his growing up and adult life in Arizona. He spent most of his Coast Guard service up in Puget Sound. Then, too, Russ had hunted all over Arizona from down around Patagonia to the Strip on the north rim of the Grand Canyon. Also, in his later years, he had become an annual visitor to Wyoming for a charitable "Helluva Hunt" put on by a rancher during antelope season. So you can understand the dilemma. My tease to him on this particular Friday was: "Well, Russ, after Sandy brings your ashes home, I'm going to ask her for an ounce or two of them and I am going to load you into some shotgun shells as shot buffer and take you out to the range one more time." He just smiled and nodded his head. I could see he liked that idea.

I did load Russ's ashes into two boxes of 12 ga. shotshells. One box was 1-1/4 oz. 5 shot field loads for upland gamebirds and the other was 1 oz. 7-1/2 shot for clay targets. Most of the field loads I used pheasant hunting in South Dakota with my brother and our sons a year or so after Russ died. A few of the target loads I used during a Sporting Clays shoot a couple years ago near Picacho Peak here in AZ.

This last Wednesday, Russ's brother John and I were at the Rio Salado clay target range for some Trap practice. I had about 15 shells remaining of the target loads I had with "Russ buffer" and showed them to John.
"We gotta use 'em!" He says. "Russ would be really disappointed if we didn't!"
So we did.
As I retreated back to the seats and set my Browning Double Auto into the rack, one of the oldtimers seated there commented on the old Browning: "What is that one?" I told him. "Must be pretty rare. Can't say I have ever heard of one let alone seen one. By the way what do you have loaded in them shells? I would swear I seen somethin' white come out the end of the barrel with some of them shots."
"I guess that would have been my 'Russell Shot Buffer'."
"Your what?"
"'Russell Shot Buffer'. I promised my best friend, Russ, that I would load some shells with his ashes as shot buffer and take him out to the range one last time. So here we are, and we did."
The oldtimer was silent for a minute. Then he elbowed is buddy next to him. "Didja hear that? They were shooting shells loaded with his buddy's ashes! How cool is that??!!"
There were maybe six or eight shooters present that heard what we had done and all of them were nodding their heads in approval and all smiling.

It was a very good day at the range. :)
I wish we could all have a friend like Russ. A friend of mines stepfather, Gene, was a very gruff and grumpy old man, I thought. My perception of him as a teenager was such that I really didn't want to cross paths with him because I know he knew what me and his sons were up to and I always thought he thought I was trash but when I got older and became a grown man, working full time and letting my adolescent proclivities go gradually, his demeanor toward me changed and I learned that he was a wealth of hunting, shooting and reloading knowledge.

He was a guide outfitter in Montana and he knew his way around the woods, he offered to take me hunting one season and I was busy with work and didn't take him up on it, he died of colon cancer the following year. He and I had just started building a good rapport and I knew he was a man of strict discipline and character and I had hoped for many more years to come, but sadly even though he was in his early 60's his time was cut short. I wish I had straightened myself up long before and took advantage of what this man had and wanted to offer, but I was a dumb kid and well......
 
Touching story. Thanks for posting it. Reminded me of a guy who passed back in the mid 1970's and his fishing buddy poured his ashes from his fishing boat into the St. Lawrence River in Northern NY State / Canadian border at one of the spots they had fished for many years. I'm considering cremation in my final plans and wherever my ashes wind up I have the ashes of my last dog that can go there with me.

Funny you should mention that. I thought of it a couple of months ago. I have the ashes of most of my pets 'n pals I kept through the decades and through many moves and a divorce to boot. I keep the ashes of my favorite cat in the apartment with me as opposed to the storage locker. He was more than a cat and more than a pal and was given to Wife1 and I as a wedding present. I'd like to do something special with his ashes.

Be careful with the ashes-scattering concept, though. There are sometimes little-known restrictions regarding it. The Forest Service, for example, requires a special permit for it for the Roosevelt National Forest.

And doing it from a plane is pretty dicey because of the slipstream blowing the ashes back into the plane.

Here's a memorable one just to keep it firearms / gun / shooty-bangy related:

https://www.nyswritersinstitute.org...ted-out-of-a-cannon-on-this-date-15-years-ago
 
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Funny you should mention that. I thought of it a couple of months ago. I have the ashes of most of my pets 'n pals I kept through the decades and through many moves and a divorce to boot. I keep the ashes of my favorite cat in the apartment with me as opposed to the storage locker. He was more than a cat and more than a pal and was given to Wife1 and I as a wedding present. I'd like to do something special with his ashes.

Be careful with the ashes-scattering concept, though. There are sometimes little-known restrictions regarding it. The Forest Service, for example, requires a special permit for it for the Roosevelt National Forest.

And doing it from a plane is pretty dicey because of the slipstream blowing the ashes back into the plane.

Here's a memorable one just to keep it firearms / gun / shooty-bangy related:

https://www.nyswritersinstitute.org...ted-out-of-a-cannon-on-this-date-15-years-ago
This thread has had me thinking about the disposition of my remains (ashes) when I cash in my chips. Especially since John (Russ's brother) and I were scheduled to leave on our deer hunting trip this Wednesday. We are both in our 60's - I'm 67 and he is 65 - and John was in a severe motorcycle accident the year before Russ died. An accident that left John permanently disabled with several pieces of titanium and screws holding him together. I am in generally very good health and cajoled John into coming with me this year to our annual Deer Camp. Then, 2 weeks ago, John took a fall and fractured three ribs and sprained his right wrist. Today, I got a call from him (we live 120 miles or so distant from each other). He had been feeling poorly over the weekend and went to the Doc today. He tested positive for Covid, so no deer hunt for John this year. His strength and endurance has been ebbing these last few years and I have a really bad feeling about the sudden addition of Covid too his other health challenges

For when my time comes, I'm thinking I will ask my son take my ashes to our favorite duck slough the January 1st of the year following my passing and pour them out on a Poper lathe-turned platter that is nailed as high up in the tallest tree where the Wood Ducks nest, as high as he can safely climb, and let the winter winds scatter my ashes however and wherever the wind deems appropriate.
Yeah!!! That's it!!! :thumbup::)
 
We have an extensive pet cemetery on our property from decades of rescuing dogs and cats. My wife wants her ashes spread there, with her best friends.
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Pets aren't people. But man do I miss some of mine.
The OP was a touching read. I personally don't care what happens with my ashes when I die. But I respect the wishes of the ones I love. If a friend wanted that. He would get it.
 
Three dogs and a cat are buried at my former residence and they will remain undisturbed even though one of the dogs (a mutt) was the longest-lived dog I ever had (16 yr., 4 mths.).
Another dog was a springer that got "knocked up" by a stray mutt but gave me my last dog, a little female that looked like a "golden". She had a stroke and had to be put down at 15y/7m and I have her ashes and even some of her "baby" teeth. When I go, she goes with me.
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I'm sorry for your loss. It sounds like your friend had a good friend!

My Wife and I plan to be cremated and have our ashes mixed together along with our beloved Cat and scattered someplace. The place is undecided for now. Possibly around the fire pit at Deer Camp, or at a favorite cove on Lake Hamilton at Hot Springs that we enjoy visiting. Or where ever the boys think is fitting.

I can relate to Russ as I was diagnosed with MS in 2015.
 
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