As Russell would want it...

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Waddison

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In a early July thread, I noted the passing of my best friend and his love for all things firearms related. His wish was to be cremated and his ashes spread over the areas he loved hunting most.

As a reloader, Russ was the ultimate recycler. If it could be reused, he reused it until it was worn out. Brass and other metals were then sent to the scrap dealers. He scorned anyone who would leave their shotshell hulls or rifle brass in the field.

I was fortunate enough to be able to join my brother in South Dakota this fall for deer and pheasants. I asked Russell's widow if she thought Russell might like to go pheasant hunting, too. I explained how I had always kidded Russ that I would load some of his ashes as shot buffer and take him out to the range one last time. (He would only grin and nod.) Though he had hunted doves, quail and waterfowl, he had never hunted pheasants and I could easily take him along as shot buffer. She agreed.

So, as Russell was a cantankerous reloader and practical joker, too, I bought new, primed BPI hulls and loaded 25 rounds with 1 1/8 oz. 5 shot with 1.6 cc's of Russell shot buffer over 18.8gn Clays and a Remington wad and printed "Russ" on each hull with a Sharpie.

We had a great time! The weather, though cool and crisp in the mornings, was unseasonably warm. We walked a couple miles of standing cropland, slough bottom rushes and shelter belts. We killed a few birds and we missed a few, too. Every hull remains where it was fired. Sorry, Russ! We only pass this way once. I'll only use these special components one time, too.

I believe Russell had a very good outing. I know I did.

Waddison.
 
You shot birds that I assume you plan on eating with a deads man's ashes as shot buffer?

I'm sure Russ would be happy and it's a great and fitting tribute, but....ewww.
 
Well Done, Sir.

A fitting tribute to a long-time friend and hunting budd...



Please tell me you are planning to "taxidermy" those birds, rather than ahhhhh make dinner with them...ewww.

Sill, though, a very fitting and well done tribute to your friend. A tip of the hat to both of you.
 
Ewww?

I don't see it.

Eat the birds.

Enjoy.

And lift a glass to your friend for me.

We should all be so lucky as to have our final wishes respected when we move on.

Your friend has a true friend.
 
Foghorn & XDKingslayer...

Considering shot buffer barely travels as far as the wad and ashes are much drier and do not stick to leads shot, your "EEEEEWWWW" comments are your own squeemishness, in my opinion, of course. I have no reservations dining on the birds we took.

Arfin:
Later the evening after using Russell's shells, I sat at the bar with two good friends I hunted with that day who did not know Russ. They did not know during the day's hunting that I was expending ammunition buffered with his ashes. During the course of our toasts to each other and the usual good humored teasing about missed shots and the back slapping for the good shots, I let them in on my final gesture with Russ. A very breif silence followed which was suddenly broken by hoots, hollers and atta boys. The entire bar errupted and I had free beer and great company the remainder of the evening! I will remember this year's hunt very fondly for as many years as I have left.

I hope my son or grandson will do the same for me when my time comes. That may be more problematic than it sounds. My son, now 30, does not hunt or target shoot, and my grandson is soon to be 4 without exposure to hunting by his dad.

However, I will be fully satisfied with my ashes spread by hand in the fields and sloughs I have shared with my father, brother and friends.

Waddison
 
That was a nice story. Thanks for sharing it with us. Here's to hoping you have many years to teach your grandson to shoot before having to be reloaded yourself.
 
Waddison, we all wish to have at least one such friend in our life time! I hope you get the chance to teach your grandson to shoot and hunt. I'm lucky that both my son and daughter are avid shooters and hunters and I'm looking forward to passing that along to my grandkids. Good luck and God Bless.

Buel Adams
 
Hi Waddison,

My Uncle made muzzle loading cannons in the wintertime. Out of respect to his final wishes my Dad took one of the twenty pounders to South Dakota, loaded the thing with his ashes and fired over the sacred Black Hills.

Knowing Uncle Lee he would have prefered spherical case shot. I'm sure your friend's spirit had a chuckle or two over it.

To absent friends.


Selena
 
wow

Thats freakin' awesome of you. Don't do yourself the disservice of being humble about this either. It takes a lot of courage to actually do what you did instead of just talk about it. You sir should be truly proud for your actions because I assure you that Russell is proud of you. I hope to meet a friend like you some day that will do me a similar service when I reach my final destination.


Bravo
 
"Upon Further Review"....

Yeah, the shot 'buffer/filler' would fall away quickly, like the shot cup. It sort of struck me as odd at first reading...

All things considered, though....a part of the very fitting and well-deserved tribute to your friend. Enjoy the birds, and be sure to lift a glass [as well as a knife-n-fork!] for Russell.
 
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Walkalong:

Yes! Russell would most certainly have dined on the birds from such a hunt if the situation was reversed.

The birds and a toast will be shared with Sandy (Russell's widow), his younger brother and a mutual friend of all of us, including Russ's. At this time it appears we may all come together in mid-February, shortly after what would have been Russell's 62nd birthday. I am sure "Russ-isms" will be told, practical jokes recalled and hunting seasons remembered.

As I see it, we never really pass away. We merely pass by, because memories of us remain as long as the stories and traditions are passed along to those that follow.

Believe it or not, I have found the acceptance and understanding of the hunting community at large, and especially THR folks, very soothing and helpful in placing the loss of my best friend in proper perspective. These breif posts have aided my greiving process very, very much.

Though I post rarely, I will continue to lurk often

To ALL of THR: Many, many heartfelt thanks.

Waddison
 
That was a very nice gesture. I told my Mrs. that when I go, I don't want a sad affair; I want it to be one heck of a party with lots of laughter and free beer.
 
Waddison,
I looked up and read your July 11 post "I went to the Gunshow..." which was about the loss of your friend. I must agree with Arfin Greebly and the rest of the THR posters. It is a fine thing you've done for Russell. I think he would be pleased. I hope my friends are as true and fine as you are to yours!
Well done!
Poper
 
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