I think the Glock line is a good example, but if you look at the Kahr line it is an even better example because they strive to be the slimmest guns with the smallest footprint. IMO, Glock has just sort of followed other gun manufacturers in this regard. If you look at the Kahr 45 offerings, they're not as small or lightweight as the 9mm offerings. Arne Boberg's guns are another example. Arne sought to make a pocket nine and did, with the XR9-S Shorty (although a little heavy for pocket carry). He tried to make the smallest .45 ACP possible with the XR45-S Shorty and it is longer, higher and heavier than the XR9-S Shorty. The .45 brings with it a minimum weight and size requirement below which a .45 ACP semiauto will not function reliably and those minimums are larger and heavier than the 9mm minimums.
And that's why I like 9mm. Three inch barreled semi-autos that are roughly 5.25" x 4" weighing 14 ounces will run (most) of the 9mm SD loadings reliably and 9mm bullets out of those 3" barrels are still penetrating 14" in 4x denim gel tests and expanding to around .60 caliber. It is still a "major" caliber in a very pocketable pistol.