DeepSouth
Random Guy
I just couldn't help it. I saw the "My wife hates guns thread" and couldn't help but report success.
When I meet my wife she had only shot a gun a few times squirrel hunting, she said she stopped when she killed one and started crying. If I remember correctly she told me she had never shot a pistol. So needless to say her experience was 'limited'
She never had a big problem with my gun hobby but she was almost completely unwilling to participate. I just let her watch from a distance for a few years, over time she got more and more comfortable being around guns in general. When our sons, now 6 &10, started taking up the sport she showed a little more interest. That was what I had been waiting so long for she started showing a little interest own her own. Sure I gave her some encouragement along the way but I tried hard to never push her into doing anything she didn't really want to do.
I tried to find a gun that she would like but every one I found she hated because it had to much recoil. She would close her eyes turn her head to the left and almost faint when it shot, it scared her that bad. So obliviously I needed to go buy a .22 pistol, now I didn't just go buy one and bring it home. She went with me and picked it out, I never would have picked out what she did and I still say the only reason she picked it was because it had a laser.
Anyway, she was even a little scared of the .22 for a while but within a couple hundred rounds she was willing to keep her eyes open and within a few hundred she would even shoot it single-action, that was a BIG step for her. She shot well over a thousand rounds through that little .22 before really getting comfortable with shooting in general. Not long after that she decided she wanted to "carry" Even though she loved the .22 she understood it was a little small for a carry weapon. So I began to borrow every gun I could from friends and such to let shoot them and see how well she liked them. After some time we got her a Sub-Compact XD .40 S&W
In Summary:
I went form having a wife that "tolerated" my guns to having a wife that carries a .40S&W (that out recoils my 1911) and it happened in only 7 years. I'd love her even if she still 'tolerated' them, but I am very proud of her for wanting to enjoy the sport with me and understanding the responsability to protect herself and our children.
When I meet my wife she had only shot a gun a few times squirrel hunting, she said she stopped when she killed one and started crying. If I remember correctly she told me she had never shot a pistol. So needless to say her experience was 'limited'
She never had a big problem with my gun hobby but she was almost completely unwilling to participate. I just let her watch from a distance for a few years, over time she got more and more comfortable being around guns in general. When our sons, now 6 &10, started taking up the sport she showed a little more interest. That was what I had been waiting so long for she started showing a little interest own her own. Sure I gave her some encouragement along the way but I tried hard to never push her into doing anything she didn't really want to do.
I tried to find a gun that she would like but every one I found she hated because it had to much recoil. She would close her eyes turn her head to the left and almost faint when it shot, it scared her that bad. So obliviously I needed to go buy a .22 pistol, now I didn't just go buy one and bring it home. She went with me and picked it out, I never would have picked out what she did and I still say the only reason she picked it was because it had a laser.
Anyway, she was even a little scared of the .22 for a while but within a couple hundred rounds she was willing to keep her eyes open and within a few hundred she would even shoot it single-action, that was a BIG step for her. She shot well over a thousand rounds through that little .22 before really getting comfortable with shooting in general. Not long after that she decided she wanted to "carry" Even though she loved the .22 she understood it was a little small for a carry weapon. So I began to borrow every gun I could from friends and such to let shoot them and see how well she liked them. After some time we got her a Sub-Compact XD .40 S&W
In Summary:
I went form having a wife that "tolerated" my guns to having a wife that carries a .40S&W (that out recoils my 1911) and it happened in only 7 years. I'd love her even if she still 'tolerated' them, but I am very proud of her for wanting to enjoy the sport with me and understanding the responsability to protect herself and our children.