I'm 36. I've been reloading since I was a kid sitting next to Grandad, load a few rounds at the bench in the basement, go outside and try them, back down to the basement. Adjust the powder charge, COL, etc. Trim some cases. I always did the grunt work but I was rewarded with trigger time.
That being said, I still ask questions on here. It's interesting to me to see what others are doing and how. And I don't see any problem with asking about how many grains of powder for which bullet, etc. The help from some of these guys CAN save a lot of footwork and time. Just compare powder charges with published data for a reality check and you are fine. And you learn who you can trust and who is just throwing out numbers.
Here's an example. I've been loading for the .38 special/.357 mag for 18 years. But I'm reduced to a limited supply of primers. All I have left in small pistol is small pistol magnum. When I look at my powder shelf, the only powder I should use a mag primer with is H110 or True Blue.
I have some Nosler 158 gr jacketed bullets. I've never loaded this bullet with H110. I want some real powerhorse loads. The Hodgdon website says max is 16.7. But there are variables. That data is for a Hornady XTP. Good chance COL is different. So, here I am asking some of the fellas out there for the charge they like for this particular bullet using H110.
But please, not all at once!