I think your gunsmith is a perfect example of the kind I worry about, and that isn’t a complement.
The gunsmith is a friend from a local gun store and well-trained. He says that you can get a trigger job down to about 8 1/2 lbs and have it be reliable. He said that since it's the older kind where the hammer contains the primer, (firing pin?) you aren't losing energy like on the newer models and you can afford to go down up to a pound or so lower.
Nobody can reduce the double-action trigger pull on a J-frame S&W to 8.5 pounds, and have it absolutely reliable under all conditions, and no one in their right mind would carry a revolver for defensive purposes that was any less then that. The main problem is a lack of mass in the small-sized hammer, combined with the fact that the hammer and trigger pivot pins (called “studs”) are close together so the trigger has minimum leverage to rotate the hammer backwards. Where the firing pin is located – in the frame or on the hammer – makes little difference. It is true that the new MIM hammers are lighter then earlier ones, and that does make a difference in theory. In practice, not so much so.
To get that lighter pull, he is either going to cut or replace the hammer and rebound slide (trigger return) springs – one or both. You can’t do that and maintain absolute reliability. If it were possible, Smith & Wesson would be doing it. You can reduce spring tensions a bit, but each reduction in poundage is matched with a reduction in reliable primer ignition. If you go too far a bit of additional cylinder end-shake may earn you a “click,” instead of a “bang!” especially if you happen to get a hard primer.
He recommended not shaving off the serrations, because there is soft metal underneath them. Shaving off the serrations would make the trigger wear out sooner. It seems that blued triggers are not available, but this one will be chrome and a tad wider, which will help with an even pull.
If I had doubts about your gunsmith before, I don’t now. He is handing you a complete line of pure “bovine droppings.”
Smith & Wesson hammers and triggers were made from a relatively soft steel (for shock resistance) and then case hardened (to leave a hard skin that was resistant to wear), and cutting through that thin surface would expose the softer metal under it. Obviously it would be foolish to polish a hammer or trigger to the point where the softer metal was exposed, but it only mattered on those places of the two parts where they rubbed together, especially under spring pressure.
The front of the trigger’s fingerpiece where the serrations are, rubs against nothing, except the user’s finger, and your finger isn’t hard enough to cause any wear.
Smith & Wesson triggers were never blued, they were color casehardened. On some stainless models they were flash chromed for cosmetic reasons only, so they would match the color (more or less) of stainless steel. Any difference in width, if there were any, would be minor. In fact many experienced double-action shooters prefer the narrow trigger with a more rounded/smooth face.
I strongly suggest that before you spend $100 and possibly get a ruined gun in return, you call Smith & Wesson’s customer service department and confirm which story is correct – what your gunsmith told you, or what I have posted here.
Do you really want to risk your wife's life and safety on a mistake?