I don't think you'll blow your fingers off. But evaluate carefully. Remember that the chronograph does not tell you pressure, only velocity. Pressure and velocity are not linear. I can help you with a model if you're curious.
Modern data, in modern guns, with modern Plated bullets indicate that your selected load probably flirts with maximum. Or exceeds max.
It's probably better to use modern data from hodgdon.com if you use modern powder with modern bullets and primers.
But the handloader's choice is always his/her choice alone, not mine. You decide what is smart. I'm just a friend and (reloading) brother giving you some feedback.
I'm just curious with a good brother like you: My IMR data says max 3.7 grains with a common lead bullet, and 3.9 grains with a plated Gold Dot bullet. Why ask the question about 4.3 grains? It would seem to exceed all current IMR data. Not bashing you, just curious.