W231/HP-38 for .38 Special and .45 ACP
Powder Pistol for .40 S&W and 9mm
H110/W296 for .357 Magnum (Lil'Gun for 170gr bullets and heavier)
If you like VihtaVuori powders and would like to stick with that company N105 will work well for your .357 Magnum rounds and N310 will work well for your .38 Special and .45 ACP rounds. N330 is probably better for the .40 S&W but if you want only 2 more powders give N330 a try in both .38 Special/.45 Auto and .40 S&W and N105 for your Magnum rounds but I think you will be happier with all three.
N310 has a burn rate similar to HP-38/W231 and Bullseye
N330 has a burn rate similar to AA #5, HS-6 and W540
N105 has a burn rate similar to Blue Dot, AA #7, and 2400