tc300mag1, I must admit I was confused by your first post, but I think I now understand your point of frustration.
If I understand you correctly, the coating on the glass of your red-dot was the problem, not necessarily the aiming point (illumination from the red-dot.) I have a cheap BSA red-dot that is similar, in that it makes everything darker when you look through it. Granted, with both eyes open it doesn't matter, but it would make identifying a target "through" the tube more difficult.
My Eotechs I have on my ARs don't have this drawback. Their lenses are completely clear, and do not darken the target area. However, if it was dark outside, and you had the Eotech set on the brightest setting, I'm sure the illumination from the red-dot (actually resembles a clock-face, not a dot) would drown out the target area and make it difficult to identify the target. As stated, simply dial-down for darkness, and the problem goes away.