I have a set of Lee dies. With the resizing die touching the shell holder, it does well enough that I just don't bother with the Wilson case gauge anymore.
The FCD is something I use, but that under normal circumstances really doesn't do anything. If it's set to crimp too much, it will crush the bullet, but the brass will bounce back, ruining neck tension. I have found that I prefer to simply not flare the case mouth any more than is absolutely necessary to get the bullet just barely into the mouth, then hold it and ride the ram up to the seating die (moving my fingers before I pinch them). I also chamfer the inside of the mouth just a little with new brass to aid in this process. Then I find crimping really isn't necessary as the neck tension is still good.
You may want to get a 10mm/.40S&W carbide resizing die. Then you can resize the body of the case first, and not need lube when you switch to resizing the neck. No lube makes life easier, and means there's no chance of getting any inside the case neck, which if not removed will reduce friction and increase the chance of bullet setback.