Instead of bickering among ourselves, let's focus and help out the OP (maybe THR should have a "bickering" sub-category where spirited reloading discussions could take place without detracting from the OP).
hvychev77, as many suggested already, when loading for lead bullets, you first want to slug your barrel to determine the groove-to-groove diameter and use lead bullet that's sized .001" over to provide proper bullet-to-barrel fit. However, many have posted that Beretta barrels are oversized and your groove diameter might be .357"+ instead of more typical .355"-.356". If your Kahr barrel's groove diameter is less than the Beretta, you have a dilemma as the bullet properly sized for the Beretta maybe too large for the Kahr. If you use the bullet properly sized for the Beretta, you'll experience more leading.
Also, in general I need to push lighter 115 gr bullet at high-to-near max load data to reliably cycle the slide of my pistols and having to drive the lead bullet harder will also add to the leading issue. So I definitely suggest you go with the heavier 125 gr bullet as you can obtain reliable slide cycling/feeding/extraction of case using mid-to-high range W231/HP-38 load data.
Unless you want to have two different sized lead bullets, one solution that I could suggest is to order bullet diameter properly sized for Kahr at 15 BHN instead of 18 BHN (Missouri will do this if you order 1000+ bullets and charge you $10 extra) -
http://www.missouribullet.com/faq.php
Can I request special sizing or can I change the type of alloy I want used?
Yes. There is a minimum order of 1,000 bullets and a $10.00 set up fee for special orders. These bullets require a special set up and will be made as time permits.
hvychev77 said:
i'll shoot 115 grain FMJ, with around 4.5 grains at 1.10". Do you load lead lighter? Where can i find load data for lead?
Although some lead vs jacketed load data may look close enough to be exchangeable, but this is not always the case and I caution you to be safe and follow the published lead load data for lead bullets.
Hodgdon website and 1999 Winchester load data provide sufficient lead load data for you to reference when loading Missouri 125 gr RN (SmallBall) which has shorter and rounder nose profile that increases the length of the bearing surface of the bullet (part of bullet that rides the rifling). This will result in working OAL that's shorter than typical 1.125"-1.135" OAL for 115/124 FMJ bullets. IME, 1.080"-1.110" OAL will feed/chamber reliably in various pistols but these OALs will seat the bullet base deeper in the case neck which would increase the chamber pressure than what was published. Due to this reason, I use .2 gr lower for start/max powder charge for my work up.
Here's current Hodgdon load data:
125 gr Lead Cone Nose W231/HP-38 Bullet Diameter .356" OAL 1.125" Start 3.9 gr (1009 fps) 25,700 CUP - Max 4.4 gr (1086 fps) 31,200 CUP
Here's
1999 Winchester load data for 124 gr Lead RN bullet:
Below is a comparison picture of Missouri RN vs SWC vs CN and you can see that the bearing surface/nose lengths are different and the resulting working OAL.
With Missouri 125 gr RN (SmallBall) bullet using mid-to-high range load data, this load has worked well in .355"-.356" barrels without leading. If your barrel is oversized at .357"+ and use .356" sized bullets, you will probably experience leading, poor accuracy and maybe tumbling bullets/key holing at target.
You could try but many have done it with issues.