Primary home D' should be a 12 gague shotgun, for those
that live in or near urban area's.
1st handgun is very subjective; based on an individuals
taste? But in my way of thinking, it should be a revolver
with a barrel no less than 4", or greater than 6" in length.
Throw out any suggestions for the .22LR caliber as a HD
weapon! Caliber of choice should be at least a .38 Special,
with the .357 magnum being even better. Practice with the
inexpensive .38 Special target load's; and stoked it with 125
grain JHP .357 magnum's for serious HD application's.
If a self-loader is in order, there are a lot of good ones on the
market? MY caliber of choice for a HD self-loader will always
be the .45 ACP. With that said, I load up a couple magazines
with Federal's 230 grain JHP "Hydra-Shok's".
As to make and model, that really depends on how much cash
you are willing to spend? In both circumstances, Ruger makes
good, quality, less expensive firearms; and towards the top
end, you will find Colt. Somewhere in between, one can
usually compromise with a good Smith & Wesson.
*FootNote- Manufactuer's listed make both, revolvers
and semi-auto's.
Best Wishes,
Ala Dan, N.R.A. Life Member