Thanks guys. I really appreciate the informed opinions, and one theme I'm noticing is that I've yet to hear from anyone who has tried this gun out and didn't like it.
Still, there were a few well informed guys who made good points about why I might want to think twice about getting this gun. I'm not gonna ignore these guys because even though they haven't shot the gun, their points were still based on logic or science.
The big one that had me concerned was the quick spread of the loads creating danger beyond the target. I think that's a reasonable concern, but for my personal preferences, and my needs, it's really not a concern at all and I'd like to explain why:
1. I live in a suburban neighborhood. Every house has large front, back, and side yard. During the day, there's an occasional dog walker on the street. Innocent bystanders aren't much of a concern. However, even if they were a concern, they wouldn't be for me because..
2. I'm never gonna shoot someone who isn't close to me. The way my house is designed, there's only really one place where I could ever have more than 6 feet between me and another person. Even if there was a bigger distance in my house, that wouldn't matter because if I had that type of distance(which means he's more than 6 feet away and ISN'T coming closer), I'd much rather retreat to another room than shoot the guy. Unlike a lot of you guys, I don't have a wife or kids to worry about so in my situation it'd be much better to avoid taking a shot.
3. At first I thought that I had been kind of air headed to not think about the threat this caused for innocent bystanders, this being the first time I've considered a weapon that fires anything other than a bullet, but then I realized something. The change in ammunition changes nothing. I wouldn't fire ANY gun if there was a possibility of an innocent bystander on the other side of my target. It doesn't matter HOW sure I am of my shot whether it's .410, .45 ACP, .22LR, 7.62x39mm, or anything else because there's no way to be 100% sure a shot is gonna hit it's target and if there was, it could still go through and continue to travel. The precautions I would need to take to avoid the pellets endangering an innocent bystander are precautions I would already take with any type of gun.
So my next major concern was "is the .410 useless from a handgun" and I did a little research, and a little review reading, and what I found was "yes and no". Most .410 shells probably will perform poorly from the gun, but now federal makes a specialized buck shot shell just for these .410 revolvers and it performs very well.
My last concern wasn't even a concern until a bunch of people started telling me I'd be better off just buying a regular .45 colt revolver. I assumed that if someone was telling me that it would be smarter to buy another gun that shoots only one of the 3 ammunition options of this gun, there must be some advantage to having a .45 colt only revolver rather than this revolver. So far no one has been able to offer any evidence of that, and several people who have fired both have said there is no difference in performance. So as far as I can tell, the only difference between this and a .45 colt revolver is that this one can shoot two additional rounds and looks differently. I try not to buy a gun based on looks, but if it came down to looks, I do like the way the governor looks. But it's not coming down to looks because it's apparently a very effective self defense weapon that offers three great options that all perform very well, and it's not very expensive at all.
I love the simplicity of a revolver. There's a reason they've been being made for so long and why so many of us still prefer them over autoloaders. I currently have only one handgun and it's a j frame revolver. When I decided it was time to expand my horizons and get a few guns for other purposes, the first hole I wanted to fill was home defense. I considered the most popular option, the 12 gauge shotgun.. but to me, eve if a 12 gauge shotgun is the best option, for me it's a type of gun that i have very limited experience with. I don't get a lot of range time and it will be a while before I start getting more because of my illness. I don't want to end up in a self defense scenario with a gun that I don't feel 100% confident with. I've fired Smith and Wesson revolvers extensively. As comfortable as others may be with a 12 gauge shotgun, I just wouldn't have that experience, so I was pretty excited to see Smith and Wesson making this revolver in 3 different great self defense loads, and with everything I could really ask for in a home defense gun. It's got fixed sights, it's got the tritium night sight, it's got a short barrel, it's DA/SA, nice frame size, not that heavy, and not that expensive.
So I guess at this point the only question I still would like an answer to is this: am I wrong to think there will be no surprises? If I'm familiar with smith and wesson revolvers, is there anything here that will catch me off guard?