Sorry but the line has to be drawn and everyone draws it somewhere.
Draw it where you wish, just be realistic in where you draw it.
To me the thought that a jframe is insufficient for a conceal carrier is ridiculous. We aren't police officers. We aren't under cover DEA agents. Carrying a full load out all the time like you are going into battle isn't necessary.
Just out of curiosity, what makes your average citizen any different than anyone else, once the action starts? Other than they are more likely to have less training, and their opponents even more aggressive towards them, both of which even more emphasize the need for a more realistic gun, how will things be any different?
You dont get to pick or choose what comes. You do get to choose what you carry. If you feel the need to carry a gun, why would you carry anything less than what will give you the best chance at "most" situations, not just the one in your head?
I can't carry a belt gun at work and I doubt I would out in most circumstances out of convenience. For me a j-frame hopefully is enough because I doubt I'll carry much else. Belt guns seems to be a slippery slope because if I've got a glock 26 why not a 17? At that point I will likely leave the gun at home.
"Hopefully is enough" isnt very confidence instilling to me.
Let me ask this, what handgun do you shoot the best with, when you have to quickly draw it when surprised, and while moving and shooting? Once you figure out what that is, then you can worry about how youre going to carry it.
Most of the smaller "pocket" guns, are not as easily deployed, especially under stress, and are not as easily shot, while doing so "energetically". What aggravates things even more, they are quickly empty, in just a burst or two.
Ive carried all manner of big and little guns, and in all manner of ways, and other than maybe actually having my hand on a gun in my pocket, or in something in my hand, Ive never been able to get the smaller guns into action faster than my full/mid size guns, concealed on my belt.
This is actually a very simple exercise to work out too. Get a buddy or two together and a couple of airsoft guns, and try it for real. Airsoft is a great help at proving/disproving things.
Oh, and the choice between the 26 and 17, thats easy, you choose both. I did.
Thats why my 642s only seem to get shot in practice twice a month or so, to stay familiar with them. My hand hates me on those days too.
I don't aim for the bare minimum that might be needed. What has all my preparedness cost me? Some minor inconvenience.
Yup. And after a short while of living with it, none at all.