Lessons Learned
1. WOMEN
Do NOT marry a woman who is anti-gun. In the long run, Political Compatibility is far more important than bedroom sizzle. It's possible for her to change/see the light, but it's more likely she'll try to change YOU... via "compromises". Real Second Amendment supporters DON"T compromise. Politicians do. And that's why the Great American Gun War continues, with our 2A rights slowly bleeding away.
2. MARRIAGE
When you get married, get a written PRE-NUPTIAL agreement that says your guns are sacred, off-limits for any subsequent divorce property settlement, and that, if in the event of any "domestic disputes", she will NEVER attempt to get a judge/court to grab your guns. Likewise, include a clause indicating she'll NEVER discuss/reveal your gun ownership to ANYONE without your written permission... including the police and her lawyer, etc..
This is harsh stuff, and it may not be fully enforceable in court (remember, 50%+ of marriages wind-up there). However, simply getting this on the table, up front, might cause her to balk. If so, kill the romance fast and get out while you can. Better women await.
3. WHERE YOU LIVE
If you live in a state with seriously anti-2A politics, MOVE OUT. Likewise, avoid moving to such a state for job reasons.
4. EMPLOYMENT
Avoid employment with organizations/businesses with rabid anti-2A ownership and senior management. Do your homework up-front... and ask 'em candidly if they discriminate -- In The Workplace, or Socially -- on the basis of Race, Gender, Sexual Orientation... OR Political Orientation. If they get fidgety, walk out. Watch for little clues of trendy political correctness (like "weapons-free environment", etc.) in their talk and literature.
Get the education, training, and resume to put yourself in a strong-enough professional position to do this, too.
SUMMARY
The heart of the matter is this: society's rife with people and organizations whose agendae includes eliminating your 2A rights. They have an arsenal of their own weapons to punish, penalize, feminize, marginalize, and homogenize us gunnies. Take every opportunity to undercut their games and reduce their power. Boycott THEM and their products. Punish THEM. And support groups like the NRA to help "Multiply The Force."