Walkalong is correct as primers are assembled with anvil feet sticking out of primer cup.
Pre-loading primers is seating primer cup deep enough in the primer pocket to push up on the anvil feet to set anvil tip against priming compound so firing pin/striker hit will set off primer instead of seating the cup deeper (If primer goes off on second strike, likely it was not seated deep enough) -
https://www.thehighroad.org/index.p...-and-discussions.778197/page-11#post-12417636
Seating primer is a two (2) step process:
- Initial resistance we feel is the primer anvil feet hitting the bottom of primer pocket
- Second resistance we feel is the primer anvil feet pushing against the bottom of primer pocket setting the anvil tip against the priming compound under the cup.
If you stop at step #1 (Above flush or flush, depending on depth of primer pocket), then first primer strike may not ignite the priming compound and just leave a shallow dent on cup while pushing the primer cup deeper and second primer strike will ignite the priming compound.
Your primer cup SHOULD be seated until secondary resistance is felt or about .004" below flush.
As to primer seating depth, .004" below flush will usually bottom out primer cup and set the anvil tip against priming compound but continuing to seat the primer deeper will start to flatten top of primer cup (But in my testing, all the primers seated .004" to .008" below flush were reliably set off) -
https://www.thehighroad.org/index.p...-and-discussions.778197/page-11#post-12576848
FYI, I found slightly larger sized Metric primers can be difficult to seat even to flush in some once-fired brass like S&B/RWS and now I reserved these brass with tighter primer pockets to be primed with domestic brand primers.
BTW, here's US Army AMU's take on primer seating depth -
http://bulletin.accurateshooter.com/2016/01/primer-seating-depth-uniformity-and-accuracy/
"Here at the USAMU, we ensure our rifle primers generally run -0.003″ to -0.005″ below the case head. Maximum primer depth is -0.006″ and minimum is -0.002″."