Hot ammo is fine. If you shoot it, it will accelerate wear on any gun. This usually means that the gun will wear out in the hands of your grandson instead of your great grandson. Go for it.
A steady diet of hot ammo in a gun not rated for it can and will cause you problems.
I've posted this before, so you may have already seen it.
This is the top half of a SWD M11/9mm that had a couple of thousand hotter Spanish SMG 9mm out of it. It didnt last to long.
The same gun with the new top and at this point many, many tens of thousands of rounds of standard and NATO rated 9mm through it, 19-20 years worth anyways.
Now agreed, the M11 isnt built like a SIG, but it is built to shoot 9mm, and does so fine if you stay within its parameters. Move out of them and things are happening, whether you see it or not.
If you own or are considering a 9mm, and plan on shooting a lot of the hotter ammo, especially if you practice with what you carry, which I personally think should be done if you want to be proficient with your gun, then you might as well move up to the 357SIG. You get the best of both worlds, a gun built to take the pressures, and a round that is starting out power wise, where the 9mm is at the end of its limits, and actually beyond them. The difference in the cost of the gun is nil, and ammo wise, its actually cheaper, both for practice and carry ammo in the long run.