Ash, an Aesthete eh?
As a kid, I liked the lines and proportions of Lugers, Whitney Wolverine, Mauser's Hsc, Nambu 14s and Ruger's Standard (aka MkI after the MkII came out)and Walther PPKs. I still appreciate their design.
Then Dad bought a Colt 45 auto!!! (I never called them a 1911 until a second mfgr started making the darned thing)
Hey now. It was like a light turned on; I was heretofore blind but now could see. Martial as all getout, T'was... Manly. The others suddenly became, I dunno, a little less "masculine" in appearance.
If I could find a little Colt Govt in .380 that didn't cost an arm and leg and if it was in 9mmx19 in lieu of the 9mmKurz and if frogs had wings and I was born rich instead of good looking...
I'd be sitting pretty. But alas and anon. I did inherit Dad's 1908 which is pleasing to the eye (or my eyes at least) so I got that going for me.
Look for a small pony, dig deep into your pockets, tolerate the .380 for what it is. Might be right up your alley. Then again it might not. Beauty, eye, beholder... all that jazz.
Walthers PP series, SIG 230 or 232. Makarov, CZ 82/83. Beretta's 80 series. Check those out as well. Tres Chic. Nice lines. Small round. Trade offs and/or European designer styling ("I just needed to shoot him a little. In America they feel the need to shoot him big.")
But they're still not Colt or S&W wheelguns... are they?