I know I am a little late to this conversation, but I just bought my XDM-9 at a gun show on Saturday. Keeping in mind I have only fired a hundred or so rounds through it in one session yesterday, it does seem to be very good gun, my only gripe is I wish the trigger pull was better, I will probably go with an aftermarket upgrade. As to the questions about the gun, the mag loader is not bad, certainly better than loading by hand, like others have said it was probably a bean counter decision, it may be low cost, but is not cheap. It is built out of sturdy plastic, has a spring loaded release button and rail clip (the only moving part)on side to mount as an accessory on the mag holder, not a bad freebee. I would rather they included it than an uplula that many people may already own, as I suspect its production cost is a fraction of the uplula's. On the topic of the grip safety, I don't see what there is to complain about (implementation, not concept) , it is perfectly molded to the frame, light spring tension, you almost don't know it is there, much less obtrusive than on the 1911.