She lives!
After parts chasing and head scratching I just hadn't put the thing back together right!
It did need a new hand. The two pin type. I just hadn't been getting the little second pin under the little hand spring in the trigger. After finally getting it all apart and back together she is as good as new!
As a result I have a few extra new parts, If anybody needs a "new small frame 3 pin" type hand, or a new small frame 3 pin hand that has been made to work as an old style 2 pin hand, or a hand spring, I have them!
Thanks for the help and input, I am going to enjoy this ol' gal in all of her patina and funny grip glory.